Is it normal to think being a woman would be better for being lesbian (details)

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so yeah, i have my masculine ways, but when it comes to being with a woman making out, i'm a little too female myself, and a woman to a guy seeming a bit submissive, i just feel it make more sense and not really be questioned why when making out with another woman its not as weird. i won't lie, i love affection, love it so much i really don't have to have actual sex.

sure, as i said i can be masculine and all dominant, but i also like being gentle and tasting the sweet kisses and everything else. i just feel like it be better if i was a woman with another woman. most people already assume its normal for lesbians to be the kind of gentle/submissive. a man is suppose to be tough and masculine all the time, and isn't cute if they can be gentle and submissive. a man loving affection as much as a woman likes being kissed on the neck without being a horn dog about it.

eh, just direct me to a place where i can find a woman who can enjoy that. because around here its obviously not good enough, and i'm not going to change.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Are you male? You aren't very clear with this (maybe it is just me) but this is really hard to understand.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      to put it point blank, is it really wrong for a male to be tender how a woman can be with another woman without being questioned of being too submissive? ( i have watched lesbian porn before)

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    Thinking dominant men or masculine males can't be or are not affectionate , gentle and sweet is your first mistake . If you are in love with women and find no interest in men , sure .. find a woman to date . If you are doing this based on your false image of all men , it's silly . You clearly haven't met any good men yet .

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  • ______________
    8 years ago

    Dude. There's nothing masculine or feminine about passionate kissing. Either party can take the tide of being more submissive.

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  • unionclocks
    8 years ago

    Have you ever heard of the word 'schematised'? IMO, to me anyway, gender roles are 0.000000000000% relevent in bed.

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  • ReginaFalange
    8 years ago

    Plenty of women will think a sweet tender guy is... well, sweet. :3
    I even guess some of your sweetness shows in other aspects of your personality, so a girl that dates you probably has chosen you already because you're sweet and most probably that's exactly what she likes about you. :)

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  • KeddersPrincess
    8 years ago

    I just wish someone would upload some picture of some hot, male sword swallowers (and not the dick sucking kind).

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I get headaches when I'm constipated.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      well that's no fun.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        It isn't. I think I have PMS, I'm bloated, constipated and achy.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          i think it has to do with a lot of stupid in the world, as is this question of mine. note to self, don't post questions while drunk, funny how i'm still drunk and realize that. sadly its when its too late. ah well.. better late than never. eh?

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago

            I wish I was stoned.
            :-/
            PMS be cray.
            :-(

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Too confused to even attempt answering. I don't know why I bothered reading past the first sentence

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I am sorry I wasn't able to put it more clearly, i'm just wondering why if i am making out with a woman, is it wrong to be on the same level and act like the same sex? in other words, i am no sexist, but hey, not everyone isn't a sexist, and
      i wonder if i am wrong for sometimes being really gentle and liking being the one being touched rather than doing all the touching. the submissive, liking to be touched, doing touching myself. but not being a dog about it, lets just say the women i have been with, i had a feeling it really didn't turn them on. and i am wondering if it been easier if i was a woman because a lot of people are sexist and assume two women to be as i feel when i am with A woman. in other words, it makes me seem gay. and i am not. would it been more understanding if i was a woman myself?

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        You're allowing yourself to be influenced by outdated stereotypes: stop worrying about whether how you feel and act sexually is gay or feminine or anything else but what comes naturally to you. That's what will turn most women on, not someone who's worrying all the time during sex - that's a HUGE turnoff and passionkiller.

        I've been with women as well as men over my long life and everyone is different, the majority regardless of gender sterotypes.

        Forget the labels and do what comes naturally and see how that goes

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