Is it normal to think about the meaning or goal of a relationship?

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I'll get to the point. I'm almost 25 and I've never asked a girl out. Let's ignore the fact that I've had only 2 girlfriends before and that one lasted 3 days while the other lasted a week and it was an open relationship with the most uncompatible girl with whom I had sex twice without being able to ejaculate. Actually I'll talk about this last one too. I DON'T UNDERSTAND NORMAL RELATIONS BETWEEN PEOPLE. Can somone please tell me why do guys need a girlfriend for other reasons than to rub a penis in a vagina because it turns us on? Obviously when you meet a girl you arent going to tell her that so do you have to fake yourself to act normal and try to maintain like a sort of friendship when you wish you'd rather jack off to hotter girls on the internet that fulfill your libido. For me relationships are dull and boring and I don't uderstand "the goal". I'd rather do drugs everyday than to waste my time in a relationship. Why waste your time trying to know a female when you can never have a constant high if she deceives you for example. How do you know what she wants? Are there many types of relationships that I can suggest before real meeting? I'd rather live with a slave woman so I can control everything. Anyway I thought I'd share my thoughts. No sarcasm really. I'm confused

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  • daydreamer394
    9 years ago

    Do you have emotions?

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  • toofgod
    11 years ago

    Stop jacking off and get your mind out of the gutter.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You remind me of a character in a movie... Had you ever seen the movie, "Silence of the Lambs"? There is a character in that movie called, "Buffalo Bill". He was a serial killer. He was fascinated by women SO MUCH, that he made clothing out of their skin. Apparently he was a transexual because he would dance around naked in wearing these breasts and female genitalia suits while his junk was clearly missing. One famous scene in the movie was when he had a victim in a well and she was screaming her head off for him not to kill her. He said, dispassionately: "The 'thing' will put the lotion on her skin." Something to that effect... He saw women in a very detached manner...

    What does this have to do with you? You have stripped women of their personalities and souls in your mind. We are human beings just like you. That chocolate cake that you like or that lovely spring breeze that makes you smile or that music on the radio that makes you hum along... We are right there with you. Did you know that at the very beginning stages of the formation of an embryo; that humans are neither male nor female? Gender is congenital. The x and y chromosomes determine whether we will grow into a male or a female. Anyway, you have to keep in mind that we are all in this together. It's not the Planet of the Women versus you. It does not matter if you form a romantic relationship with a woman or not. I believe that you need to adjust your thinking about exactly what a woman is. I also think that you may be a homosexual. No judgment. Just a guess.

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    • surreal-artist
      12 years ago

      I appreciate your analysis. I think it's pretty accurate but I'm not sure about the homo part. I don't lust about homo acts usually and even though I sometimes fantasize about it just because I find it extreme, I would not want a homo relationship. Don't get me wrong I enjoy female sensuality but I just find it exhausting to make a woman act the way I'd like her to act in my mind.

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Whatever floats your boat..... I just think you have a problem, normal ppl are attracted to others and want to get to know them more. The goal of a mature relationship is not to stick your penis in her vagina. I want a gf to share my life with her, have a life companion. When you'll meet the right corpse ( i guess ur a necropedophile ) you'll understand.

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    • surreal-artist
      12 years ago

      No I'm not a necropedophile or gay for that matter. Nowhere in my story does it say that, so take a better guess or none at all. On a more serious note I have been interested in alternative lifestyles like emo and goth or satanist and even neo-nazi just because I feel like an outsider. I guess my biggest proble would be accepting who I am regardless of my good looks, body type and good parental education. I've always been like a rebel and refused my parents full education yet I've never been a bad boy and I'm even starting work as a security agent as I don't do drugs (not anymore) and I've never been convicted or anything

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Your longest relationship was how long?

    You don't seem to want or need one. Accept it and the fact that others aren't like you.
    People like the companionship and solidity of relationships. Someone who's there when you need them.
    If you can live off drugs and porn, please do so..

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    • surreal-artist
      12 years ago

      As it says in the story. ONE WEEK, and I saw her like 3 times only. And I broke up with her right after dinner with my flat-mate and his hotter girlfriend and right before going to the disco with her girlfriends. I felt like shit afterwards but I just didn't feel attracted to her. I'm actually a very shy guy and I'm reaching an age where people shouldn't feel shy about emotions but in the same time I'm also extremly sensitive to any type of feeling. Does that make me an emo? Because I've been interested in alternative lifestyles just because I feel like an outsider.

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