Is it normal to think a crooked, super big nose means no one will like me?

I'm a girl. My face is super long with this ugly crooked witch-like big nose in the center. I was made fun of my entire life for it. Now that I'm in college, though, people often say I'm "pretty," but I still think no one wants to be my friend or date me because I have this prominent facial defect. I don't think anyone can be attracted to me, so when I find out someone has a crush on me, I just avoid them because it seems so illogical for someone to be attracted to an ugly big nose. Is this normal?

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Based on 154 votes (99 yes)
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  • bekah095

    Ohhh I'm jealous! I ♥ Big Noses. They make girls look uniquely gorgeous and guys? Just shmexy.

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  • CountryRoads

    Silly.
    People won't like you for your lack of self confidence.
    Find what you love about yourself, and dont dwell on what you don't like. Nobody else is.

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  • dappled

    I think it's more of an issue to you than to anyone else. You even refer to your nose as a defect rather than a feature. It's not so big a deal. Honestly.

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  • life-is-good

    I have a big nose too, i just laugh it off when people make comments about it though. It's easier than feeling bad about it

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  • MercedesBenz

    I have a Jewish female colleague who has a very large schnoz. But, she has this sense of confidence which makes her inheiritely sexy to all of the male junior associates. So, I think with some confidence you can rock it and get out of this slump. There are plenty of females with traits that may not be so much desireable, but with some self appreciation become so much more appealing.

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  • kricket

    Wow, that was ignorant. ^

    Anyways, there are ways to embrace your looks. Find a style that suits you and work it! Confidance will shine through and people will like you for you! Look at Heidi Montag, she is a plastic cookie cutter of what she thought people wanted her to look like. It's funny too how pretty people can make themselves ugly by being ignorant and mean.

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  • Penguin_pie

    It's normal. I felt the same way. I hated my nose and never felt pretty, even though after highschool I did get asked out a lot. I got a nose job and no one really noticed, the plastic surgeon even told me I was too pretty to mess with my nose but I did anyways. I still think it's big, but beetter than before. CHances are your nose is probably not as big as you think. I have a cousin with a huge nose with a big bump and she is still gorgreous and gets asked out so much. Her nose is obviously huge but she is still super pretty and sexy. You can still be pretty with a big nose. But yes it is normal to feel that way, I felt like why would anyone want me with this hufe defect in the middle of my face....but people told me i was crazy.Just remember we are our own worst critics.

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  • crazykittens

    Okay, just have to say honestly that one of my friends has a GIGANTIC nose..I'm talking people can live in there... Anyway, her fiance is freaking gorgeous. I honestly don't know how she got him. It does make me jealous and I know this was kind of a rude comment, but to me, large noses aren't appealing, but when someone loves you, they don't care what kind of nose you have. Personality is first in love.

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  • catshapped

    Hehe, I happen to have the same problem dear only that if your face is long better...Mine is all little everything in my face is little and delicate except that I have a terrible long hook looking nose...And it looks terribly out of place...: S So get better you could be me, and you would be worse XD

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  • Penguin_pie

    Oh also, we hold ourselves back. I had braces and didnt date anyone while I had them, because I felt like no one would want me...even when guys asked me out, I'd back off or screw it up because I was so embarrassed. The day I got them off I met my bf of 4 years. Was it the reason i got a guy? No. He had known who I was before and always thought I was hot. It was my self confidence that got me the guy.

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  • U sound like s Jew, oh god I keep picturing Barbara Streisand, god no!!

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    • umph

      Not all Jews have big noses and there are also lots of non-Jews with big noses.

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