Is it normal to tell a guy you'd like him to be your fuck buddy?

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When i still had a bf i met this really nice guy who was kind of flirting with me.
He doesn't know I'm recently single, but we've been texting everyday,
and i can't wait to tell him "hey, it turns out I'm available now!"
But I wouldn't like to get into anything serious as I'm coming out of a relationship... still i think I'd be good news for him, right?

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Based on 37 votes (29 yes)

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mystery7

8 years ago

Just don't let there be any confusion about whether its FWB arrangement or a relationship

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Exactly, it's not fair to assume men would ALWAYS prefer just sex.
  
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[Old Memory]

8 years ago

Yea, kind of every straight guy's dream.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  So i shouldn't even worry about how to tell him. Chances are he'll be happy anyways, right?
  
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Anonymous Post Author

8 years ago

I'd really just like to kiss him taking him by surprise and se the confused look on his face, then explain and have a laugh. I think his face would be priceless.

I don't even care about the sex, that sounds more fun
(I'm just being silly

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poorbaby

8 years ago

Not saying there is anything wrong with it, adults can do what they want. But I remember when not wanting to get in to anything serious right away meant "Let's have coffee and the occasional dinner, nothing exclusive, and see where it goes."

Now apparently it means "let's meet for the occasional round of casual sex, nothing exclusive, and see where it goes."

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- anti-hero
  
  8 years ago
  
  Your other accounts follow people around and say the same thing over and over again.
  
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  - Vaginal_Blood_Farts
    
    8 years ago
    
    In your garage band, what instrument did you play, the skin flute?
    
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TrustMeImLying

8 years ago

https://youtu.be/rLC69vpurHY

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  My best friend used to give me advice in the form of Friends' clips. I loved it :)
  
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NathanScot

8 years ago

Hi love, those are good questions.
1. This will definately be good news for him cause ur showing intention that u want him to come up to you.
2. Dont waste ur energies planning anything complex.If he's a sharp guy just tell him ur free on a particular weekend,he'll read between the lines and take charge from there.
3.As for the fuck buddy situation,its rather subjective.Personaly i like those kind of arrangments,no drama just sex and bit of company but people are diffrent.You will have to explicitly clear with him on what it is want to happen.Cher'

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Is it normal that i read the first line with a British accent?
  
  Thanks for your input!
  
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  - NathanScot
    
    8 years ago
    
    No,thats fucking racist...
    
    Just kidding love,its okay.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Dear oh dear, I'm terribly sorry!
      Hahahahaha ;)
      
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      - NathanScot
        
        8 years ago
        
        Is it normal when i pictured u laughing u had blonde hair.
        
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        daydreamer394
        
        8 years ago
        
        Kill yourself.
        
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Anonymous Post Author

8 years ago

My questioms for you are:

1. Is it ok that i assume this will be good news?
2. How do i ( if i should) tell him what I'm kind of planning?

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sugartits

8 years ago

have you ever tried anal sex?

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