Is it normal to stop yourself from liking someone?

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I feel like my bf is trying to discipline himself and try not to like me anymore by avoiding me and distancing himself from me. Our situation isn't the best situation to be in in order for our relationship to work and I think he just doesn't want to be hurt or hurt me later. For me, I think he's worth it and I rather be with him and struggle and make it work as long as we have feelings for each other. How do I know for sure he has feelings? Because he shows it whenever were together. He even said so but its almost like he doesn't want to get into deep water later so he's trying to train himself to not like me anymore. I obviously don't want him to do that when I know he does have feeling . I wish I can just say let's make it work and he says yes.

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    So your afraid to do what obviously needs to be done and have a serious conversation about the future of your relationship.

    or if you prefer...

    If you want to make sure he has feelings for you as per your OP then simply find his USB port and plug him into any computer that is capable of running the Boyfriend Feeling Barometer software put it on quick scan and within 2-3 minutes you'll have your answer.

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  • thatcutesmileyguy
    8 years ago

    Did he ever have commitment issues in the past? That may be a contributing factor. He is probably just trying to save himself from heartbreak later on and in doing so ignoring your feelings.

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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    Tell him you have feelings for him! Be open to him. Im sure he'll tell you he still definately has feelings for you :)

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