Iin: to stop being affectionate after 2 weeks

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So My wife and I got married in January. After having met in December. Sure, we fit right into the typical lesbian stereotype. But a little backdrop for you, I have NEVER been the committing type, rough childhood, was always in shitty relationships, Met my current wife and I truly felt she was my soulmate. She is SO good to me. I'm deeply madly in love with her. Now here's the point, I seem to have a cycle, I get really affectionate for about 2-3 weeks right when I first meet someone sex drive is wild, and I'm very in touch with emotions, ETC.. after 2-3 weeks, I lose it. I get distant. I don't want her all over me anymore. I don't hardly have a sex drive anymore, this isn't new, this has been how I am ever since I had my first heart break. And it seems the damage has done its Job. I just want to be a good wife and make her feel wanted but how can I when my mind is so use to this cycle? Is something just wrong with me?

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  • Tayariii
    7 years ago

    I don't know if it's a temporary feeling or long lasting one, but if it's temporary I think it's normal. People need their own space and they need to grow. I know a guy who goes somewhere every Thursday without his wife because he needs the space. My grandpa has a workshop where he spends time alone and does his thing, and then after that he returns to his everyday life with his wife and his dog afterwards.

    I don't know how you would make her feel loved though, I'm not really a relationship expert.

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  • Faceless
    7 years ago

    ur stoopid

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