Is it normal to still have a small flame for an ex friend

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No matter how hard i try to forget this guy, he somehow pops up in my thoughts every once and a while. we had a falling out years ago, he tried to fight for our friendship but i was so hurt by his actions i pushed him away. i was consumed by anger and i actually thought i hated him but my feelings for him never died. I think he was the first guy i had feelings for. one day he was just a friend and then next, i deeply felt something for him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    What were his actions?

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    • amg1028
      6 years ago

      its a long complicated story but ill try to explain it:
      he staged this intervention with all of our friends. we were a group of five. Apparently they were discussing how i felt about each of them. They all thought i hated them except for one(it wasnt the guy i had feelings for) he just stood and watched the show. they surrounded me, confronting me about how i apparently hated them all. the guy i had feelings for, thought i hated him because he thought i knew that he was starting to suspect that i was gay(hopefully that makes sense).(surprise, im a guy who is gay lol) i was DEEP in the closet at the time but i guess the guy who i had feelings for knew me better than i knew myself. In that moment, i never felt so humiliated and alone, these were my friends who i cared for so much and they all were talking about me behind my back and whats worst is that they were assuming the worst, that i could actually hate them. which i didnt, well not until that very moment. i was so angry,hurt and surprised by all of it, i walked away. the guy i had feelings for called after me, i couldnt turn around because i was crying and very angry. after the incident he kept coming to my door for months but every time i slammed the door in his face. i think back and kick myself because i made it bigger than it was but i guess in high school everything is a big deal but it really isn't lol.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Yeah, that was weird of them.

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  • Seahawksfan56
    6 years ago

    I went through something similar myself. I've fallen out with her more than just once though. It's like clockwork between reconnecting and realizing that we fell out for a reason. Time I start learning.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    i bet you are 45 and a cat lady. And he is happy with kids and house and all the rewards he wanted with you. ha ha ha.

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    • amg1028
      6 years ago

      Who hurt you? smh

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