Is it normal to stay to sleep with my step daughter in her room some times?

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I have a relationship with my girlfriend/couple/wife since more than 2 years ago. She's got a precious princess of 10yo. I'm separated, not divorced since I never got married, and I got a biological daughter too, my biological daughter is 11yo but since Im separated and she lives in another town away from here I can't see her much frequently. So when I met my step daughter and she met me we had a lot of chemistry, we have a lot of things in common and well, I started to take care of her even more than here mom. Her mom is so explosive with an ugly temper and she keeps yelling and sometimes even beat her. Well since I started to figure that I started to talk with the little princess and tryed to make her undertand that her mom was abusing of her authority of mom, controling her and not taking in account his ideas, feelings or thoughts. Because of this same bad mood and temper I started to be more close to the little one, playing video games, listen to music, watching movies, and many things that she didn't use to enjoy because her mom dont let her do it. Since a long time ago she calls me "dad" or "daddy" and I practicaly adopter, not legaly but I treat her like my real daughter.

Well the thing is that I started to prefer being with her in her room talking, playing, watching movies etc... than being with a bad temper woman.

Is it normal that sometimes I stay to sleep in my step daughters room???

Depending of what kind of person you could be, you may think in some kind of perversion. But I swear to god we spend incredible moments and share a lot of likes.

So IS IT NORMAL THAT SOMETIMES I STAY TO SLEEP IN MY STEP DAUGHTER ROOM.

tHANKS FOR YOUR ANSWERS-

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  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    You're questioning whether it's normal because you're not sure about the situation yourself. Some people innocently enjoy the company of children, but you have your own child to pay more attention to. Instead of talking badly about the mother to the child, you should rather try confronting the mother about the situation and try to help her see reason. You also have to bear in mind that this girl is going to reach puberty or already has and then it would be extremely inappropriate for you to be frequenting her room. Teenage girls need their privacy so limiting your visits to just an occasional talk to give her support would be a good idea.

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    I think you just dearly love her and for that I admire the kind of person you are.

    I think you have a lot of hurt inside because you don't have your biological daughter in your life anymore. Now you have your new daughter and you give her all your love.

    Just be careful that you're not subconsciously using her to fill the void you have

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    STOP IT NOW! You pretty much fit the profile of a pedophile: preferring children's company to adults of your own age; imagining "chemistry" between you and a child; giving her pet names (precious and princess) to make her feel special and sleeping with her.

    Get it through your head: you're an adult and she's a child. IF she is in fact being abused by her mother there are other steps you can take rather than preying on a little girl and coming on her for approval, which I'm shocked to see you received .. unbelievable

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  • walkingzombie
    9 years ago

    as long as all your doing is spending time with her its okay but many people would loo at that and take it the wrong way about you sleeping with her.

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  • nabilone
    9 years ago

    Even if you're attracted to her I honestly don't find this weird. I like jailbait myself.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    If you just spending time with her then its ok. But be aware Other people might wonder.

    Why not try to legally adopt her then try to get custody of her away from her abusing mom? You can set up hidden cameras to gather evidence.

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    • stranger2014
      9 years ago

      This is interesting, the thing here is that the mom has some mental issue, and right now, the only reason I stay living in the same house is because of the little princess. She have told her mom from the very deep in her hearth that she don't love her anymore, that she want to be with me cause I truly take care of her. I have all what it takes to support her as my own daughter, but I dont know anything about laws. The mom keeps saying Im an extranger in front of her. Of course Im not a stranger since I take care of the child, I get involved in her world and we share incredible time together like games, songs, and movies etc...

      I have recordings of the mom yelling at her, and recordings of the baby girl telling her that she dont like the way she treats her. I have a screenshot of what it is supossed to be a family she was creating with another guy and in this facebook collage she putted the baby princess and her baby boy as they were a family even when the kids were little and they didnt know nothing about this, but somehow in the post appear the pic of the baby girl and the little child saying: "daddy im your barbie" and the boy: "Daddy I miss you, I dont see the time you come here for us. Of course all this was mounted by the mom to show they were going to be the best family, with a boy she met on facebook???!!!

      Well, if you know about a way to be able to stay in piece with my princess I would really appreciate it. I dont want her to live with fear all the time.

      Im so confused I dont know what to do and if what Im doing is correct.

      Any advice will be well received.

      thanks.

      Stranger

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      • Anonymous200
        9 years ago

        See if you can get a lawyer. Explain your case-that her mom is abusive and that you're able to take care of her. It might be complicated and it might take awhile, but if all goes well, you and your daughter can move out and be able to have a good life together.

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      • reminiscent
        9 years ago

        Well its not like I know a whole lot about the law ether. Your best bet is to go to a lawyer and talk to them about what can be done. If you can prove she is an unfit mother child services might take the children away.

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        • thr
          9 years ago

          Won't a lawyer require payment for the consultation?

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          • reminiscent
            9 years ago

            Some lawyer's offer free consultation

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  • nine11
    9 years ago

    Don't wory, enjoy yo life, very few r lucky 2 have sweet young 1

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  • GunnerKing
    9 years ago

    Don't worry bro, its normal

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