Is it normal to start liking a guy even though he hurt your feelings

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When I was in 6th grade about almost the end of the school year I was going on a field trip and I saw this guy and he caught my attention. I had a crush on him till 8th grade. In the winter dance in my last years of middle school I had and a valentines day card to him that I wanted to be friends in which cases we were then he had read my writing all wrong. He asked every girl who had sent his card to and I was scared to approach him to tell him it was me. Then he came to ask me so I freaked out and I lied to him. The dance came and everyone was giving me the same comment "are you looking for someone?" I didn't know what that meant till one person said"if your looking for him he's in the cafeteria waiting for you" then he started to chuckle. I felt like I got stabbed in the back. I didn't go to the cafeteria instead I went to the dance floor and hanged out with my friends. Then a group of guys and girls took me to the cafeteria and told me to sit here and to wait. I didn't wanted to wait so I went back to the gym/dance floor. I went back with my friends then we started dancing then I saw Him being pulled towards me and he was trying to refuse... In which case hurt me if he didn't refuse he kind of liked me or was gonna explain something since he did the only thought that came to mind was he hated me. After that night everyone was saying that I was obsessed with him and i had no life. In which case he started the whole thing.

Now during marching band season I saw him differently than two years ago. I'm now in 10th grade and is it normal to start liking him even though he hurt my feelings?

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    You're young and new to love. You're going to learn it's okay to let people go and there are other men in the world. Yeah he was a bit of a jerk but he's also young and new to love. Just move on with your life, don't look back and don't be hard on yourself.

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    In which case can you write? In which case this sounds like a boring diary entry. In which case I don't know why I actually read the entire thing. In which case you're twelve, right? In which case case in which.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    cute, you already have memories with him now you'll make some more :)

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  • CrashMan
    12 years ago

    I'm not quite sure what happened here, haha, you sort of rambled a bit and I lost track of what you were going on about. I'd say it's pretty normal to have a crush on somebody and perhaps keep that crush even if they hurt you. I don't know how old 8th graders are, but younger people tend to be more immature and less likely to realize how much they can hurt others, especially those who like them.

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  • Steve92
    11 years ago

    Yes!

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    Sixth grade?damn that's early to start getting into that sort of thing.Actually I think nobody should.
    Nobody should.
    Not even in tenth grade.
    At least that's my opinion.
    It might be just a boarding strategy so if you get close to him and get into a love relationship with him you could end up finding out he just wanted to take advantage of you because he heard you became quite good at giving head or whatever,then when he starts being a dick again and starts hurting your feelings all over again,you'll be sorry.But it could be too late to actually get rid of him.Then you'd have to spend the rest of your life with an immature cocky uneducated jerk who gets all like:I hate you! Whenever he doesn't get his way.
    So,normal,but still sort of lame.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think your my age. I know a guy that liked me ever since. Year 7 and he called me a bitch in year 9 . I was confused

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    • matthewkoehler
      7 years ago

      hahaha

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Great memories and many more could be added if you reach out and take a chance, Good luck with your choices!

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  • supaflyafro
    12 years ago

    yes its normal for girls to like someone who hurt them because girls like guys who bring out their feelings he most and go after them

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