Is it normal to spread my butt cheeks during sex?

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When I have sex in the doggy style position, I will often reach back and spread my butt cheeks apart. Sometimes just one hand, sometimes if I'm really into it I'll put my shoulders on the bed and use both hands. The guy always seems to like it, based on their reaction.

Well, yesterday some friends and I were talking about sex, and I mentioned this. They all seemed surprised by it, said they never did that, and one told me it was weird that I did it. I was thinking about it later, I guess I learned it from watching porn, I know I've seen it happen there...but I guess that's not really s good indicator of what happens in real life.

So that got me curious. Are my friends right, is it weird or unusual to do that, is it just a porn thing? Or is it normal?

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  • thehalfgoodgirl
    6 years ago

    I spread mine during sex and the guys always love it, they get a look at my bootyhole

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  • thedertygirl
    6 years ago

    I love how we can spread our butts with our hands to show our butthole, the first time I did it was when I was a little girl I was around 9 or 10 I was changing clothes and I saw my butt on the mirror and I remembered seeing my cousin spread her butt with her hands when we played doctor and I decided to spread mine and I did it and I saw my pussy and my butthole and liked it so the next time I played doctor with her I bent over and spread my butt open with my hands and she saw my butthole and she fingered it and as I got older I told my boyfriend about it and he asked me to show him how and I took my panties down and spread my butt open with my hands for him and he loved it

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  • Justalilcurious
    7 years ago

    If YOU like it why not do it??? Don't listen to your friends when they say it's weird...

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  • rayb12
    7 years ago

    never listen to people trying to shut you down. I think that's awesome and you should do what your gut tells you, but also what do i know. If no one's getting hurt and people are enjoying it, why are we even asking questions?

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Seems normal to me. Its sexy.

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  • boygemini
    7 years ago

    I do that too! It feels so erotic.

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  • paulthepoes
    7 years ago

    Your male partner is misreading your actions, what he really should be doing is shoving his rock hard dick straight into your rectum when you spread for him because that is really what you want is it not?

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    I think its perfectly normal. Screw your friends. Have you ever tried anal? It is sooooo amazing.

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  • wishmaster
    7 years ago

    Yes it's normal for men and women to spread their butt cheeks. It means that you like having your anal opening fully exposed to your lover or sex partner. It's very erotic to show a person your very private part, and there's nothing wrong with doing that.

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  • Fish73
    7 years ago

    I always pull my Mrs butt cheeks apart when I'm doing her doggy stile, she loves it

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  • randypete
    7 years ago

    you sound like a hot girl a guy can fuck deeper like that

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  • arthurtheaardvark99
    7 years ago

    That is really hot, if I was that guy I would be tempted to dig my nose in there, wow. Just saying.!

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