Is it normal to sometimes hate him and other times love him?

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After 2 years of no communication my ex and I started talking again. We have such a strong physical attraction towards each other it seems impossible to be just friends. We ended up sleeping with each other. He says I broke his heart the 1st time so he doesn't want to rush into a relationship. I know he cares about me and I know with time we could grow into something. But I have problems with my feelings. Sometimes I want nothing more than to be called his gf. I feel that I love him and I want to tell him but I have to hold back and give him time. Other times I hate him and wish I never reconnected with him. Sometimes after sex I want to cuddle and have him hold me. Other times I just want it to be over and want to cry because I hate him so much. What's wrong with me? He's been nothing be nice to me. Is this normal?

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Based on 29 votes (22 yes)
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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    this happened to me to i actualy devorced but we eventualy remarried and my wife and i are happely back toghether

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    People need to stop being so damn idiotic and stop frying back together or even hooking up with exes. IT WILL NOT WORK

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  • princessthan
    13 years ago

    The same it's happening to me right now... :(

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  • tomcat1974
    13 years ago

    Use him...when u need a friend use him as A friend...when u need some lovin..use him for that...just always try to keep the friendship thing

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  • Andramelach
    13 years ago

    This can be a real life redemption between you two or it can be a fairy tail that will leave you scarred for some time. Realistically this may just be a chance for him to get laid or fulfill another ulterior motive. OR, he could genuinely care about you but be completely terrified with the situation.

    Your uncertainty about your feelings gives you stress and tension that your aren't ready to deal with at this time. When you talk to him, slow down, listen. Don't try to read in between the lines and relax. Hope for the best.

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