Is it normal to self-identify as bisexual after being truly gay earlier on?

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I am a 21 y/o guy who has self-identified as gay for several years now.
I recently was diagnosed as having low testosterone and have never had a respectable libido, and once I started hormone replacement therapy, I started to have attraction to girls seemingly out of nowhere! (BTW I am a virgin.)

A big stereotype for bisexual guys is that it is a transition state to identifying as gay, but I have the inverse of that situation. Not to be too graphic, but I can now get off to women in porn for example, notice attractive girls (and guys) while out and about, and even have started to fantasize about women sexually. Nonetheless, I am still more readily attracted to men in comparison.

Am I bisexual now (who leans to the gay side as opposed to straight), or am I just a curious gay guy? Help!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    You are a queer. That is why they call it queer because it is odd.

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  • Legion
    10 years ago

    its normal, and there are many bi people who don't identify as gay or straight.

    and considering the fact you had hormone replacement therapy is probably contributing to your attraction to women , but you can still be bi with healthy testosterone levels

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  • kelseyt
    12 years ago

    Its completely normal for sexuality to be fluid.

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