Is it normal to seek minor revenge in a nonharmful way to someone who wronged u

Is it normal to seek minor revenge in a nonharmful way to someone who wronged you? Like putting their email on spam sites for treating you badly? Is that wrong to get a bit of revenge in that way? I think it will help me let go and forgive and forget just to get a bit of revenge/closure.

Yes it's okay 22
No it's not okay 6
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  • charli.m

    Sounds petty and childish.

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    • I don't think it's mature either and yeah it's petty. It's all ID.

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      • charli.m

        And yet...

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        • I didn't claim to be mature or unpetty.

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          • charli.m

            Did I say that you did?

            I'm merely indicating that it makes you even more pathetic that you're aware and yet, you do it.

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            • eh ok

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  • Its OK.

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  • AnxiousPrincess13

    dont worry, i measure up what the persons done and give them equal revenge. like if they told the whole grade my biggest secret, i would tell the whole grade theirs. which isnt even out of character for me seeing how im so the biggest gossip and i know everything bout everyone.

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    • you_go_glen_coco

      "smol" :)

      A girl who I like talking to and sharing things with uses that word alot.

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      • AnxiousPrincess13

        im probably not that girl :)

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  • I understand your urge to get some minor revenge, but eventually the best thing to do for yourself is to just learn how to deal with those types.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Revenge is a waste of time let it go and get on with your life.

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    • bobobob

      Oh please you try to one up people who disagree with your mean bitch you opinions by making them feel like shit by the way you talk down to them in your superior way. That's a form of revenge you hypocrite.

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      • mysistersshadow

        I'm sorry I don't know what your talking about.

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        • bobobob

          Well then you're either as dumb as you are mean and have no self-awareness or insight or you're a liar

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          • mysistersshadow

            Or I'm bored with your juvenile responses.... Hmmm.

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            • Short attention span is normal for someone who hasn't graduated junior high school.

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    • what about my need for closure? Maybe you're a better person than me... but if a silly little prank gives me peace why begrudge me that?

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      • mysistersshadow

        You can do it but you asked so I gave my opinion. I don't see how it would give you closure but whatever.

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        • bobobob

          She's the Revenge queen don't worry about her opinion.

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