Is it normal to see my boyfriend's friend with a girl and be so jealous ?????

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Before judging me or thinking of me as bitch or whatever , You guys should know that I do like my boyfriend , and I'm not planning on cheating on him .
So the thing is about 3 months I've met my current boyfriend for the first time , I found him handsome , elegant , and respectful , but we are so different , he likes sports , he doesn't like the kind of music I listen to ,neither movies , series .. I feel like there is no connection between the two of us , u know it's like we don't have that thing together, sometimes I just can't find a subject to talk about , and he knows all about our differences so whenever I bring up a topic , he acts bitchy abt it , trying to proove to me that my ideas are wrong , and bla bla bla , but still we like each other , we ve shared some really nice moments . the issue here is that my boyfriend have a friend , he's so nice , and so cute , he's mysterious , peaceful, have a good taste in music,movies... doesn't talk to a lot of girls and he is admired by a lot ... We never really talked or something because of my boyfriend and i don't want him to think of me more than his body's girlfriend cause i've seen him looking at me quite a few times,so the thing is yesterday and for the first time I saw him with a girl he was holding her hand , and strangely i've felt So jealous of her , my heart skips a beat , I don't know Why ,like it wasn't me Why would I be jealous ? Do I like him ?? Can I like two guys in the same time ?!What is wrong with me ?
Sorry for my bad English ,Its actually my third language

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  • laxman209
    10 years ago

    Sometimes love doesn't require two people to have same interests or views. People seem to forget that even if someone we know has same music and movie taste. That we all are different people.

    In my honest view, relationships are something that works for each other.

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  • WhatIf...
    10 years ago

    A bit off topic, but how are you even together when you don't share any interests at all, like the word "boyFRIEND" or "girlFRIEND" indicates that the couple are friends too, which means that you share some of the same interests and enjoy each others company. Like, how did you even start to know eachother when you don't have anything to talk about?
    And also, i have to say that your english is very good especially for being your third language! :)

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    I don't think it matters if you like the same things as your boyfriend or not. It's more important to have the same values as each other. If you can't find anything to talk about together, you should do something together and talk about that. If you can't find anything you both want to do, you should try each other's favourite activities with an open mind. No-one is so different that they have nothing in common at all :)

    As for his friend, it sounds like he's already got a girlfriend or another girl he's interested in so it's better to forget about him and not waste your thoughts on him. It's normal to like him, but there's no reason to let it get in the way of you and your boyfriend.

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    Impressive for a third language. You might see him as someone that is more suitable for you than your boyfriend, even if you have loyalty. I don't know what you should do though, if you are not really happy with your boyfriend you have no reason to be with him and the longer you wait the worse it will be. All I'm saying is make sure your time is well spent.

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    • lecitone
      10 years ago

      Thanks a lot for ur advice :)

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