Is it normal to secretly desire a future partner who’s a virgin like you are?

For many years I’ve always thought it would be really romantic to mutually lose my virginity to someone in a relationship. Even during the times I’ve loved and desired relationships with people who aren’t virgins, I’ve still secretly had this fantasy. Ideally with someone who’s not just a virgin, but who has never even touched or been touched by someone in a sexual way.

Although I secretly hope for this, I would choose to be in a relationship with someone for other reasons (like a good heart, mutual love, etc.) regardless of whether or not they’re a virgin.