Is it normal to say i love you so much if you're not dating the person?

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Is it normal to say "I love You" to someone so much, if you're not even in a relationship to them?

I work with a guy who i've only known for about 3 months. We get along well, and he always sticks up for me and helps me and does all these nice things for me.

We spend alot of time at work together, and we used to play fight alot, like children. (we are in our twenties by the way.) so after he was done talking his mess one day, i walked away and he just stared at me and said, "I love you." It didnt sound like he was playing but i doubt it means actual love. My coworker also tells me that he always says that im so cute and that he loves me.

Ever since then, he randomly tells me he loves me. I just say Aww and i smile but i cant say it back. One day, he did make me feel bad and i guess he noticed and he apologized the next day and told me he loved me to death and would never be truly mean to me. i also rang him up for something at work that day, and he had to sign because he paid with a credit card and as his signature, he wrote, "I (heart) you" (he drew a heart.)

I can't imagine anyone actually saying it so often and actually meaning it. Especially since we haven't dated or done anything other than hug. Is this normal?

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  • pixie44
    9 years ago

    he wants your v

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    • TheAnonymousKid
      9 years ago

      I see. Thats all though? It doesnt mean he likes me or anything?

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    • Toxicuniverse
      9 years ago

      Haha ikr

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  • 0404
    9 years ago

    this is a workplace I don't personally think what he is doing is a good thing what happened if this leads to something more then what if it then after period of time it does not work out then its hard on both ends because you are still working with one another it would be very hard to keep working together and what would your bosses make of this!! If this wasn't person from work it would be okay as long you felt safe and on the same page with this person.

    best of luck :)
    and remember this is what I personally think its your choice what you chose to do with what I have said because its your life I am only just giving my advice.

    Cheers!

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  • Toxicuniverse
    9 years ago

    He probably likes i but doesn't know if u like him or he could just be waiting to see if your the one

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  • Toxicuniverse
    9 years ago

    U guys should hook up

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    • TheAnonymousKid
      9 years ago

      Ive thought about it. But i want more than a hook up.

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