Is it normal to reject romantic interests for this reason

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cause i would not let anyone date me with my current body even tho i am happy with myself cause i am not fat and run a lot. But someone i love deserves the best and i could not give something to them that was low standard. I dont have a lot of sex endurance so unless the guy does all the work i get tired soon. So i reject anyone who wants to date me cause i would feel bad for them. Even if they said they loved me the way i am deep inside i know they wish i had a better body and stamina

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Based on 16 votes (6 yes)
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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago

    Tomorrow may never come! Maybe if you find a person who loves you as you are you will get motivated to improve your body anyway.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If they love you as you are, then you are depriving THEM of their pleasure. How is that fair?
    It sounds more like you are afraid of intimacy and this is the excuse you've made up for it.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    you have low self-esteem and confidence.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    You would never belong to any club that would have YOU as a member.

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