Is it normal to refuse sex for this reason?

I choose not to have it because of my penis size, lengthwise I'm probably lower side of average but still average but I'm not wide think I'm pretty thin which is meant to matter more than length, any of u do this? Have done this? Should I do this?

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Based on 72 votes (22 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • thegypsysailor

    It not the size of the tool, it's the skill of the craftsman.

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    • I've been avoiding it, call me very unskilled

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      • TareBear20

        No offense, but hahahahaha!! XD

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  • motherlovebone69120

    I don't know if you're straight, bi or gay, but I am less than well endowed and had sex with over 30 women by the time I got married at 32. As long as you can give pleasure and get off in a normal fashion, you should be fine. Also remember that your cock is not the only pleasure giver you have. I am lucky enough to have a fairly good sized tongue, which I learned how to use on a woman to give her pleasure. With all that being said, I have been fantasizing about men lately. The smaller cock thing is on my mind more than it ever was with a woman. This fact among other things is why I haven't "pulled the trigger" on being with a man yet. I will get over it though. I just have to look for an average sized cock.

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    • boredwolf

      I want to take a dump on your penis.

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    • TareBear20

      You should think about getting rid of that poorly written, soft core porn you have in your bio.

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  • TareBear20

    It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Having confidence is key! Be proud of your penis.

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  • Gspyder

    Don't let it stop you. An unstretched vagina is only like 4" anyway, you can literally reach the g-spot with your finger so why should size matter at all? And if a girl ever says it your dick is small shove it right up her ass and ask if she wishes it were bigger now

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  • Hajer92

    how old r u ?

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    • Let's just say lower half of 20's

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  • deepthought33

    I judge more on their willingness and aptitude to bring hands and mouth and imagination to the table than I do the size of their penis.

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  • dickwashington

    who cares it beats jerking off! whats the worst thing that could possibly happen?

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    • Laughter

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      • dickwashington

        do you have a girlfriend? someone who really cares about you? if so then you have nothing to worry about. just be confident in yourself. if she does laugh at you then you then she obviously doesnt care about you and you shouldn't be having sex with herin the first place

        and if she does laugh just jam your thumb up her ass and blow your load in her eye

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        • Lol at the last bit, nah I don't unfortunately, but as for your second point i'm also the kinda person who doesn't believe sex has to be meaningful, obviously it can be and is at it's best but at the age I am I honestly would mind a casual thing.
          It's weird, I'm a confidant guy, I'm outgoing, good in social situations but really bad when it comes to stuff like this in terms of confidence, it's not just lack of confidence it's downright embarrassment of my body, if I got to the point of having sex I'd be so embarrassed I probably wouldn't get it up.
          I'm actually meeting with a girl who I brushed off before for that reason later these week and was considering cancelling

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          • dickwashington

            i dont let this ruin your life! dont let it hold you back! meet up with this girl have a good time with her! you don't have to rush into sex! there are other ways of pleasing a woman besides a penis god gave us fingers and tongues for a reason!

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      • derpyderp

        Unless you're with a complete ice queen I don't think you'll be laughed out of bed.

        Obviously sex & penis size is a big thing to guys but you shouldn't let it stop you.
        You're happy with length but not thickness... What are you comparing to that makes you unhappy?

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        • Not comparing you can tell just by looking and feeling, blatantly suffering from pencil dick lol

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          • derpyderp

            It's easy to underestimate yourself I think. You really won't know if its an issue for a girl until you use it.
            Just go for it man!

            We all have things we're self conscious about & your confessed inexperience won't be helping your thoughts on the matter...
            I know from other issues that stressing about it generally just makes things worse.

            At the end of the day this is something you can't change so just go with it.
            Soon after you do you'll be kicking yourself that you didn't start sooner...

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  • Parky_Parker

    As a girl, confidence is more important than the size of the anaconda.

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    • Then maybe alcohol in moderation is the answer till I build confidence in bed

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  • DannyKanes

    Don't dick about, just go for it lad!

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    • shuggy-chan

      Idk looks a little cockeyed to me

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  • megadriver

    Dude, just have sex. Enough crap questions like "Is my dick big enough" "Is my dick wide enough" "Can I pleasure women"...

    I don't know, nobody knows. Go for it and find out.
    Have confidence and get those revs up!

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