Is it normal to refer to sex organs by their anatomically correct name?

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So I have a booty call who always calls sexual organs by their actual name. Like, he'll say "suck my penis", or "play with testicles". Words like cock, cunt, fuck, etc...all make him uncomfortable. He won't swear or even say vagina. I constantly have to come up with more clinically accurate words to describe body parts, as he can't handle slang. Is this normal or weird?

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  • radar
    6 years ago

    You mean a gluteus maximus call?

    It is kinda awkward, makes it seem a little like they're uncomfortable with your body or it's a novelty to them. I think it is just a thing about trying to be respectful though. Because you know in their heads it's all titties and ass and pussy all over the place.

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    • Algum
      6 years ago

      I can understand that with someone who's not interested in sex. But I don't understand that with someone who's into booty calls and all who's afraid to say pussy, dick, titties, fuck, etc.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    i try to say vagina really, but i sort of stutter va , va , va, pussy.

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    • Algum
      6 years ago

      That's like a Porky pig kinda stutter there. "I'm gonna bt-bta-bta-bt-bta -pork Petunia in the p-pt-pt-p-pt-ptu -vaginia". Lol. I used to say that one years ago.

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  • Zorak
    6 years ago

    So he is just one of the many bootycalls you have I assume?

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  • suckonthis9
    6 years ago

    Well, you've got yourself a good politically-correct pussy-fuck, which never really happens in the real world.

    Anatomically correct names should be reserved for the clinic and polite circles; not in the bedroom, or wherever else you might enjoy a good fucking, or other sexy things!

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    It seems to me very odd that he's happy to have casual sex, but so straight-laced about using "dirty" words.

    A little OCD, perhaps? This is just one of his quirks?

    Not being able to even say "vagina" is extremely weird, and really makes me wonder what nasty little sprites are romping around in his head.

    If he's not willing to acknowledge that you have a vagina, doesn't that make you wonder where he's imagining his penis is? Who knows? Maybe he's gay, and so totally repressed that, not only is he unable to recognize that, he can't even admit to himself that he's having sex with a woman.

    Did he have a strict, religious upbringing? Maybe he got into trouble for using "bad" words, but sex itself was so taboo that it was never even mentioned, so he never took on-board serious hang-ups about the actual act?

    Or maybe he's got it into his head that the naughty words are disrespectful, and sex is supposed to be this pure meeting of souls on the physical plane?

    Whatever the cause, he sounds like hard work, but I guess he must be worth the research and creativity necessary.

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    • straight2thepernt
      6 years ago

      naughty words being disrespectful makes total sense given his personality, but i still find it a little strange because i find it embarrassing to ask him to “make love to my vagina” as opposed to “fuck my pussy” when it comes to dirty talk, yknow?

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      • Boojum
        6 years ago

        Is it the case that you have to _avoid_ the "dirty" words, or does he _want_ you to use the clinical terms?

        If you were to say things like, "I want you in me!" or "I want this now," as you stroke his cock, or "Do me hard now!" the meaning would be pretty clear from the context.

        Frankly, the guy sounds pretty clueless. Loving, respectful sex is nice, but raunchy, on-the-edge sex with lots of dirty talk can be wild.

        What's odd about this is that men are generally pretty good at compartmentalizing sex. I think most guys can treat and talk to their sexual partners as if they were total sluts in the bedroom, but then be very respectful and caring when they aren't having sex.

        The thought occurs that this guy is very much "in his head" when he's having sex. He's holding back, keeping himself in check, constantly censoring his thoughts, words and actions, rather than just letting himself get totally into the sensations of what you two are doing. You can't make him cut-loose, but maybe you asking him if this is what he's doing could make him reconsider his approach.

        I'm not clear if you enjoy dirty talk, or if you just find his inhibitions awkward and they tend to make you stay in your own head. Neither is good, and it's likely that sex between the two of you could be a lot better than it is.

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  • Usermane
    6 years ago

    Mmmm your labia majora is so hoawt

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  • mia500
    6 years ago

    I agree with Boojum. He sounds kind of uncomfortable about being sexy, or maybe feels like he needs to hold back

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  • Blabla123
    6 years ago

    I think its normal, not usual but ok

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  • MisterPapaya
    6 years ago

    Everyone is different... like the word "Vagina" actually turns me on more than "Pussy", but it's odd I don't think twice about using the term "Pussy Juice".

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