Is it normal to recall past slights and conflicts without getting over them?
I can recall almost every slight, insult, and conflict I've ever had with people in my life, and some of them still piss me off when I think of them. In fact, sometimes I brood and dwell upon them excessively, constantly replaying them in my head and wondering who was in the wrong and why. I have a hard time revisiting places where I've had conflicts, and whenever I see a person with whom I have had conflicts or have been slighted or insulted by, I immediately recall those issues the moment I see the person almost.