Is it normal to randomly worry about being a lesbian?

Sometimes I worry that I might be a lesbian, even though I know that is stupid.

I do like the idea of having a boyfriend. Also I do have sexual fantasies about guys. But I am a virgin and I am sometimes a little worried that if I have sex w/ a guy I won't like it.

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  • SirChazwickEsquire

    Can i have a dollar?

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    • RoseIsabella

      Would you care for some Gatorade?

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      • SirChazwickEsquire

        Blue frost please.

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        • RoseIsabella

          The thirst quencher!

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  • nikkiclaire

    Sorry but this made me smile. I pictured someone like randomly wondering "oh shit!! Am I one of those lesbian things".

    Seruously tho, Its normal to question sex, everyone does. You'll figure out what you like.

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  • GerardWay

    its very normal to be scared of your sexuality. in time you will figure it out, and you'll get used to it and it won't be so scary after all. it just takes time. best wishes

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  • SmokeEverything

    Just becareful, sometimes the girl won't even tell you she's gay until after sex is completed, and you can contract lesbianism in this way.

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  • McBean

    Read magazines about non-threatening boys. Most boys are scary. You need to focus on the ones that aren't.

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  • andreth

    Totally normal, no matter your actual orientation. Young people like you often have irrational fears. When I was 14 I had a recurring worry that I was pregnant despite the fact I wasn't having sex and was a virgin...

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