Is it normal to question if i'm straight or bisexual?

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Well Im a 18 years old college student and Im going throught that stage of life where you want to define your sexuality. This all started when my sister asked me if I thought this guy was cute and I told her I couldnt tell because Im a guy and to me all guys look the same, like they are just there you know what I mean? and then she told me that she was a women but she still able to tell if a girl is ugly or good looking...

After we got home I couldnt stop thinking about this and I started checking out guys more often to see if some would look good or ugly. And that's when I realized that some man looked good and some man didn't, I really never payed attention to that stuff in my life before.. I was also smoking weed at the time which made my OCD and Social Anxiety worse and I started thinking I was Bi and It was the most horrible experience of my life. Right now I can be in public and not care if there is a guy or a girl around me. Women excite me and all my past relationships have been with women and I still lean for women all the time I would never want to try anything with a guy because men do not excite me at all.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I also think you've a normal curiosity, an if you say you'd never try anything with a guy, you're not bi.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    I've never understood the questioning nature of this. If I see someone, I kind of know whether they're attractive or not, and I know whether or not they're attractive to me. I don't need to work it out, then consider their gender, then work out what my label is. I might be weird, but I thought everyone was like this. I thought attraction didn't require much thinking about.

    Maybe, in a way, that's what you're saying and you have no real interest in males. I suppose it's normal to question it, but I'm not sure why you'd dwell so much.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It is a normal thing to question, and I bet many people question these things in their everyday life. You and they want to find "the one" and know where you belong, know who to spend your life with and whatnot. You want to know who you are, discover. You're curious, that is perfectly normal in a human. :)

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