Is it normal to put your mother-in-law to social security and then feel bad?
My mother-in-law has been living off a benefit for the last 20+ years, and has been living with a boyfriend for the last 7 years, which she hasnt declared to Social Services. She has also deliberately spelt her name wrong with Social Services so that she can leave and re-enter the country without her welfare benefit being stopped. Over the years, she has had numerous holidays overseas, including but not limited to Fiji, Bali, Vanuatu, LA, Las Vegas and NYC. (She lives in NZ). She has also received not one, but two large inheritances, and has spent the lot on gambling. I contacted the Social Security office and advised them of all this. They interviewed me yesterday, and are going round to see her in the next week or two. I dont feel bad for dupping her in, but I am worried about any ramifications that come our way, as she is a very nasty, vindictive person.