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Okay so this guy was my first, so I got kinda attached. We never dated. But I want to. I feel like if I keep having sex with him, he'll end up liking me.
There is no correlation netween withholding sex and getting a guy to like you...people say that shit all the time...the reality is sex can actually increase their feelings for you...but long term feelings are hard to create...it takes a very special chemistry ......so you wont know until you know
It depends on the guy. But in most cases, the guy will not respect you or care about you and he will only want you for sex. Guys have lasting relationships with girls that don't necessarily put out for them, because it keeps them chasing you. Sure he may like you now, but it is only for SEX. Stop putting out and have some self respect!
you should try to get to know them by talking.
and realize that you do matter, that you're good enough.
it does sound like you're quite insecure.
Not the best plan for a lasting relationship, but it seems to work short term!
It's perhaps the way the world should work, but it's not the way it does work. I'm not suggesting "using" the withholding of sex as a way of getting a relationship, but men are different than women. They see things differently.
What... he doesn't like you already?
Believe me... if he doesn't like you already, you're just a human fleshlight.
spreading your legs will make you more popular with guys who want to get laid but... it doesn't mean they respect or care about you.
And yes some men out there will not care for you as much if you're that easy. One of my supervisors said... He married his wife because she wouldn't put out for him. It kept him interested ... if she'd just flopped down on her back and spread her legs open he's have hit it and walked.