Is it normal to put anesthetic cream in my vagina?

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-warning, vagina talk ahead, if that grosses you out, or these types of details are "weird" to you, plz stop reading-

a little background:
So, I'm a virgin. I'm pretty sure I have vaginismus, which is involuntary vaginal muscle contracting when attempting penetration. I know this because before my first potential partner, I've never had anything inside me before. And even after they fingered me more than once, it was still as painful. It took me a year or so to finally insert a tampon and it wasn't painful after I did. just taking it out was excruciating, so I haven't used one since (4 years ago.) I was asked why I haven't had anything inside me before, and the answer was I just couldn't. It may be a result of my sexual abuse as a child-early adolescent, or genetics, but i dont know. I attempted to lose my virginity yesterday, but it was so fucking painful, and it was barely in. Luckily the person I'm with is understandable, bless them for tolerating my sexual trauma, jesus christ. Anyways, because it's extremely painful to the point where I don't think I'll ever adjust to it, (and i have a high pain tolerance) I considered using a topical anesthetic before trying sex again. Would this work?

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  • Katerina
    6 years ago

    I agree with Kinkypervert, rather go and see a gynaecologist. A topical cream can upset the balance in your vagina which will cause other issues. While you're at it, maybe go see a psychologist as well? Due to the sexual trauma, part of the problem might just be in your mind

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    has Mr understanding tried anal penetration with you ? he might enjoy some ass untill your twinky makes up its mind. I hope your giving him some head in the meantime. instead of a topical pain killer why not try some booze or some pain med like ibuprofen and heroin. i mean uh hydrocodone. but not with booze at the same time of course. you want to get laid not lay out to rest as in die.

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  • EnglishLad
    6 years ago

    "topical" means "on the surface". It sounds like your pains are deep within your vagina.

    I'm no expert but my guess would be that unless it's designed to soothe more than just the layer onto which it's applied, it probably isn't going to solve your problem...

    If you have been sexually abused when you were younger, that's a different issue entirely, and I highly reccommend that you discuss this frankly and openly with your gynaecologist.

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