Is it normal to prefer to climax in a shorter period of time

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I am a male and I was wondering is it normal if I enjoy climaxing in a shorter time frame than maybe most would consider "good sex" I enjoy fore play more and can commit to this for some time but the actual penetration I only like to enjoy about 7 - 10 minutes of it . I wouldn't want to go passed 20 minutes but 15 minutes is more ideal for a longer session for me . I used to enjoy very long periods of sex but I grew out of this .. I find my peak sensations and best orgasms happen within 10 minutes of the penetration .. after 15 minutes I become desensitized , fatigued mentally from the excitement and rush .. I feel like I am just continuing to fuck for the sake of it or possibly just to make a woman cum a couple more times . I focus more on getting us both to cum with in 10 minutes at least once and sometimes spend an extra 5 minutes of intense pleasure to get them to cum one or two more times ... some people may feel 7 to 10 minutes is a short time to have sex or that is a quick ejaculation but I don't believe it to be and its not that I cant hold off because I have a pretty amazing talent of holding off if I choose to but .. its not as good if I do I feel . The first 10 minutes my cock is the hardest and my emotions are the highest so .. IIN? as long as she is getting off I see no harm in this? I also followed up and see that what I am feeling is scientifically correct .. it makes sense but .. I second guess myself still

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  • VinnyB
    8 years ago

    I remember once a group of straight guys were talking about how good they are in bed and how long they can last and how all the girls say they are the best and blah blah blah. Then one guys says super serious "I give a girl 3 min" everyone was confused. Then he said, "If I meet some girl in a bar or club or something, I just want to get off. I am not interested in impressing her, no matter how good you think you are someone is better, so why bother trying? I give her 3 min, get my nut, and go". He said if he is in a relationship and cares about her it's different.

    Agree or disagree, I respected his honesty in a sea of bs that was that conversation up to that point.

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    • Aries
      8 years ago

      I would say he is being honest that's respectable . I don't succumb to the brainwashed version of life .. I fuck for hours , I can bench press x amount etc. I just do what I love and try to be as efficient as possible . If I am to do something I usual swim in the mental world of it trying to learn about it fully and do what makes sense which in this case seems to work for me a lot better . I think porn has a lot to do with this idea of sex and I watch time sometimes and enjoy it for different reasons but I think people forget how many different takes these films are done in and these people aren't necessarily enjoying themselves its work . I suppose I can agree with you if she doesn't cum within my time frame then .. she may not cum through intercourse , I will always try to by penetration if not just use other methods to push it along because I don't want to waste my peak on wondering in my head when she is going to cum but .. communications always key :P thanks for the input

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      • VinnyB
        8 years ago

        Not trying to be rude but, I was just sharing someone else's story, I didn't give an opinion, I am not sure what you are agreeing with me on.

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        • Aries
          8 years ago

          that became more clear now , I read "agree or disagree" in the wrong tone . My mistake

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  • JD777
    8 years ago

    You're actually doing it longer than average. Depending on what study you look at the average amount of time intercourse lasts is around 5 minutes. If you throw out the premature ejaculators, the number is still only around 7 minutes.

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    • Aries
      8 years ago

      I think 7 - 10 is my peak and my average may be 10 - 12 depending when I last came . 15 minutes is when I am super excited with what I am doing . I really don't understand the egocentric conversation of guys saying they fuck for hours etc. which as a fairly young male I hear often ... but I wonder if females are affected by this same train of thought or if those females say it for the same reason those guys are?

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