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I've had sex with only a handful of guys, I can count them on my one had and know all of their names. So I don't have sex often, but I only enjoyed it with less then half of them, the other times it wasnt enjoyable for me to any meaning of the word.
Is this normal?
Yes. It's normal. Some people don't connect with you. Some people are selfish. Some people have 0 chemistry with you sexually. So e people are just bad.
You seriously need to ask this question?
There are so many variables involved in sex - chemistry between the two people, things going on in two completely separate lives, experience, technique, where it happens, whether drugs or alcohol are involved, and physiology, to mention just the main ones - that the really amazing thing is that it can sometimes be really good for both people.
I'll trot out a statistic I regularly cite in responding to such questions: studies have found that only around a fifth of women can consistently reach orgasm through penis in vagina sex alone. For most women, the clitoris is too far away from the vaginal opening for it to get significant, lengthy stimulation from penis thrusting alone.
The big problem with this is that most guys (and many women) don't realise that and, for most guys, penis in vagina sex is their main aim.