Is it normal to only be attracted to 10s?

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I'm a female and I can't get myself to have sex with guys unless they are above average good-looking (muscular body, broad shoulders, narrow waist, attractive face). I'll rather go for years without sex than be with an ugly guy. I've tried to lower my standards and slept over at guys with great personalities but chubbier or skinnier bodies and I can also love them but I can't get myself to have sex with them because it just disgusts me. They then tend to move on because they eventually want a relationship with me but I can't do more than friendship. I myself am average looking. Is this normal??

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    I thought this was going to be about pedophilia from reading the title.

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  • AppleMind
    9 years ago | pl

    Anyone that doesn't find a good brain sexy is automatically below average for me, regardless of their meat suit.

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    • peaceandlovebro
      9 years ago

      Well said

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  • PureLikeSnow
    9 years ago

    Can you post a picture of yourself? I want to rate you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I did but I think it got moderated because it got deleted

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      • PureLikeSnow
        9 years ago

        That happens with direct links. If you want to post a link, then add a space right before the '.com' part.

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    • ilovetoiletrolls
      9 years ago

      Me too

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You are allowed to have a preference and only be sexually attracted to that preference, however your preference seems to be rather reaching if you are average. Sure you may be able to bed some of them, however if they ar 10s, their options would consist of people tht exceed yourself.

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  • Goomats
    9 years ago

    I know many girls like that, but here's the deal, if you WANT to have a relationship with the best of the best (looks wise), you have to BECOME the best of the best (looks wise). Outlandishly handsome men either marry gorgeous women or the handsome jerks USE average looking and ugly looking women.
    You have to BECOME as attractive as your men to win at this game. Work on your looks, an average looking women can become a knock-out if she becomes immaculate with her hygiene, fashion, hair and exercise.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Reminds me of this: https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ymwWKBbhA9Q/UJP7xlTWTDI/AAAAAAAAGIs/hrKKnQPLqps/s1600/sepet.jpg :P

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  • Sominn388
    9 years ago

    Hey come on guys. People can't help what they are attracted to. It's her bodies natural reaction and I believe that if she could change it she would.
    In a biological sense, her unconscious mind is looking for the perfect partner to father her children with, to give them the best possible chance of survival.
    If being with someone she considers unattractive disgusts her, it would both be unfair to herself and the other person if she pushes the relationship. That being said, we live in a world based on looks (lets be honest) and all those perfect 10 guys are probably looking for perfect 10 girls. Being, as you say, 'average', you're going to have a tough time landing you perfect partner.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      True :/ I looked this up after posting and I think it's normal to have higher standards as a woman since women can only get up to 40 children/ lifetime while men can get up to 1000. And I also found that statistically, relationships where the woman is more attractive than the man tend to last longer, so sucks for me :/

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  • Aliceee93
    9 years ago

    Shallow.

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    • thegypsysailor
      9 years ago

      I wonder if she's looking in a mirror the whole time she's having sex, as are most "pretty" boys.

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  • peaceandlovebro
    9 years ago

    Wait so an ugly guy is 8/10???? What about the 8 out of 10s or 6, 7's? lol

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      No, 8/10 is still good too.

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  • Imnotembarrased
    9 years ago

    bitch

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    It just means you have high standards. Nothing wrong with that. Life's too short to be miserable. Do what makes you happy.

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  • Nancy_willington
    9 years ago

    Don't force yourself to be with unattractive people. Eventually a guy will come into your life and he will be the perfect one that you won't ever doubt

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Honestly I'm not gonna call you shallow cuz idgaf. I'm gonna call you dumb because you're average you can't be a 5 and only settle for 10s it just doesn't work. I've dated plenty of gorgeous men but I'd rather date someone average makes me less insecure haha

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      yeah :/

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    I love how all these people get annoyed with you for this xD

    Standards are good! But as others stated if you are average you should know that the good looking guys probably go for the really hot girls instead.

    Could you please post a picture or two of typical tens to you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Like this photo except minus the oil, tattoo, piercings, strange haircut and plucked eyebrows (the general body and face are nice): http://blogimgs.only-apartments.com/images/only-apartments/1590/men-attractive.jpg

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago

        Ahhh now I'm with you. I'd Place that guy as a 3-4 myself xD But he's definately what I prefer to call "Mainstream good looking"
        Meaning something most people find attractive.

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