Is it normal to not understand why everyone isn't gay?

I actually have never categorized myself, people just conveniently do it for me. Im a girl with a girl at the moment but who knows who i might be or could have been with. I dont see why the whole world cant be with anyone and everyone, i just dont understand it, am i the only one?

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  • mewtoo

    I think you don't understand it for the same reasons some straight people don't understand why everyone isn't heterosexual....because you are looking at the world through your own glasses. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to or open to being with everyone, but not everyone is wired that way. It just is what it is. A straight person isn't less evolved or less open-minded than someone who is, for instance, pansexual...they just are how they were born. I do however, think that sexuality is becoming more fluid as our society is progressing...science is making it so that heterosexual sex is no longer necessary to have children, and therefore the human race can continue regardless of who we chose to partner with. Perhaps less people will be "straight" as generations continue. Time will tell!

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    • Tempest-au

      I like that answer. Well done.

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    • nelly1472

      that is a very good and true answer thank you

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  • Goomats

    Everybody is different. Most people are sexually attracted to one gender and not the other. Most people are heterosexual. Some people are bi-sexual. You are bi-sexual. Not everyone is as flexible sexually as you.

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  • Tempest-au

    We are all pansexuals, it's just some of us have yet to find someone of the same sex (or in your case opposite sex) we are attracted to.

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    • D4rkt0wn

      i'm not a pansexual. i am straight

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    • (s)aint

      As a bisexual I have to say: People saying stuff like that are NO better than those telling gay people they just havent found the right one of the opposite sex ... --_

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      • Tempest-au

        I stand corrected. The world clearly needs its labels so we can all be compartmentalised in our respective clearly defined boxes.

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    • yourdaughtersinmybasement

      No, that's total bullshit, I only like pussy, guy's are fucking disgusting.

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      • yanks1998

        A pussy is a cat.
        Its been called cunt and twat for the last 46 years , since 1970.
        Also , it has been called cock for the same length of time.
        If you think guys are disgusting , you must be fugly , lonely , insecure , desperate , no self esteem and you hate living alone.
        If somebody's daughter is in your basement , that must be where you live , in a basement infested with rats.

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        • yourdaughtersinmybasement

          Your physiciatric evaluation of me is devestateingly accurate. Your ability to phycoanalyis me from only one sentence shows that you are a superior genious, you should work for the FBI, tracking down serial killers, eventually they will write books about you and then movies and action figures.

          Now I've seen your bright shining light I have realized I'm tottally gay, I'm off to a drug fuelled gay orgy now, wish me luck.

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    • sandnigga

      Yea dont get your twisted fantasies into this

      Not everyone is gay

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      • Tempest-au

        ROFL - not a fantasy of mine actually, just not homophobic and willing to accept the possibility that some day I might find a guy sexually attractive. Hasn't happened yet, but you just don't know.

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        • sandnigga

          So you think because one person has a PREFERENCE for not liking to suck dick, they're automatically homophobic? lol

          Thats very foolish. Thats the mindset of a person who barely does ANY thinking.

          You like doritos right? Well that doesnt automatically mean you should like mountain dew as well lol

          And this is coming from a bisexual person, me.
          Just because I like both penis and vagina, doesnt mean I should think EVERYBODY has to automatically like penis and vagina.
          It's just foolish thinking.

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          • Tempest-au

            This from the person who accused me of "twisted fantasies" for expressing an opinion? And you claim to be bisexual as well? Oh, this is funny! Thank you for the laugh.

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            • sandnigga

              if you really think everyone is a pansexual, then yes i do believe you have a twisted fantasy

              i am bisexual, what is there not to believe?

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  • Nosklaf.Idu

    Because I like pussy.

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  • MichaelMyersindarkness

    *stares blankly into a dim hallway*

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  • mysistersshadow

    Yea I don't have any problem with it. I have a girlfriend but sometimes have sex with guys or threesomes both MFF and MMF. Its all good.

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  • Tempest-au

    Or, are you pansexual and just never found a male attractive? You know there are quite a few gay men out there who will tell you they thought they were straight until they found "that one guy".

    Never say never, because you just never know.

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    • nelly1472

      i have found guys attractive yeah i used to think i was straight idk i just think what'll happen will happen

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      • Tempest-au

        Who needs labels anyway, well, apart from clothing manufacturers. Live and love, and let whatever happens happen.

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