Is it normal to not trust anyone and push the love of ur life away becuz of it

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I tell him I love him. I honestly believe that I do. Dont judge me about that one. But ever since I was little, I have a hard time trusting anyone. I had a rough past and I tend to take it out on not trusting people I'm close to. We have constant arguments because I dont want to lose his companionship, but I am the one over analyzing and pushing him away. I need to stop and trust him because he has never given a reason to not trust him...but I cant bring myself to do it. Trust me, I've tried. I fight with my mind to not lose him. Is this normal? Is it normal to not trust anyone, not even the one person that has proven himself for my trust?

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    You'll regret this when you look back on your life and realize your actions are what caused you to be alone. You have the power to change this. Don't wait til it's too late.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    My bf goes through this. He has trust issues stemming from his past but I do everything in my power to show him he can trust me and that I won't leave him for someone else. We're always happy and I make it a point to make him realize that.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    Do you not feel you deserve to be happy?

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  • iH8
    8 years ago

    Were you raped?

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