Is it normal to not love back the guy who loves you, and love your friend?

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I used to love my boyfriend a lot, we've been together for over 4 years. He's the sweetest, kindest & everything a girl could ever ask for. But we do argue a lot, and I think we are incompatible.

I fell out of love with him about 7 months ago, and I'm in love with my guy friend, who is also witty, smart and really handsome. I don't think he's even interested in me, he's so focused in his work (and single).

is it normal to not love the guy who loves you so dearly and fell for someone who probably doesn't even care about you? It's eating me inside out. My bf knows I'm in love with my friend, but he loves me too much to leave me. I don't want to hurt my bf, but I only want to be with my friend.

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Based on 18 votes (12 yes)
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  • iindia
    12 years ago

    Don't juggle relationships. If you go through I suggest transitioning to being single and creating a content state of mind. Only then make the leap otherwise you create jealousy and indecisiveness. What makes you think your guy friend will want a relationship?

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Sounds like a storm is coming. If you don't love your bf, then leave. However, keep in mind that your friend may not like you back.

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  • Sabby
    12 years ago

    Stay with your bf if you know your friend doesn't want a relationship.

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    • Corleone
      12 years ago

      That's not very romantic. You shouldn't stay with someone out of fear of being alone.

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