Is it normal to not like it when your boyfriend kisses you for the first time?

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I looked up all the stories, I read all the "how tos", I did everything right. But when he kissed me the first time, I didn't like it. He then did it again, and I let him, but I haven't really been with him since. I'm worried it's gonna be like that with all guys. I feel badly about it, and I wish I could figure this out, but I really don't think there's anything either of us could say or do to change this. Is it guys all together? Would it be the same with a girl? Coule this change? I'm just so confused! So tell me, is it normal to not like it when your boyfriend kisses you?

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Based on 52 votes (38 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    First kisses are often awkward

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you're too focused on the kiss itself and not the moment. How-to's ? Really? Maybe you should wait until it's natural and supposed to happen with a boy you love. Not just to brag to your little friends. You'll find it easier, more comfortable, less awkward, and more enjoyable. It should happen organically. Not planned. With a guidebook in the back of your head -_-

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    • 14sammyjean
      12 years ago

      Ok, first off, I just didn't want to make a fool of myself. Second, it wasn't to "brag to my little friends" ya dick. We'd been together for over two months and knew that we wanted more. Or so we thought. Also, I had no guidebook in the back of my head. What I meant by how tos was more like a 'don't do this' type of thing, so chill

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    I did not enjoy my first kiss. I did not enjoy many following it. Not everyone enjoys there first kiss. Kissing is overrated.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    It might've just been a shitty kiss, or you might not like that kind of contact, or you might be a lesbian.

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    When you break down kissing or anything else, it's pretty disgusting. If you're going to be involved in anything romantic, make sure your eyes are half closed (figuratively)

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  • fightagainstheyouth
    12 years ago

    First kisses are often awkward, or maybe you just didn't have a strong attraction to him. I'm sure it won't be like that with everyone.

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  • darlabear
    12 years ago

    The same thing happend to me (:
    i know its pretty wierd

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Lol. A 'how to make out with ur BF' manual? Wow. That's probably why u aren't enjoying it. Ur putting way too much pressure on yourself and too much anticipation. You expect it to be so mind blowingly awesome and fireworks to go off like they do in the movies so much, that you are missing the experience it's self.

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Just relax it should be naterul I told me gf just to let me do it and for her to relax she said she loved it after that just relax and let him do his thing

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  • SimpleHate
    12 years ago

    First kisses are indeee awkword, i have to admit that my first kiss was like being lifted in the sky and then being dropped like a iron weight.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe you're not physically attracted to him enough?

    You should like it so much it makes your pussy shiver and you don't want to stop (you're over 18 yrs old right?).

    Or maybe, he has as much experience as you have and it wasn't good for him either.

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    • Ryan556
      11 years ago

      It's basically same with guys are penis tingle ow whait that's an eracton

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I agree^

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