Is it normal to not leave someone cause our sex is amazing?

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I can have sex with my boyfriend all day every day. I mean we've done that in college, literally have night sex then morning sex and then all day maybe a few more rounds until we got hungry. Sometimes, I would go straight to class unshowered after morning sex, ugh it was torture but worth it. Welp those college days are over and now we're long-distance but when I go see him, I just can't wait to have sex with him again. Because we are a little more serious than those college days, we tend to make an effort to do something more productive after we have sex even though we know deep inside, we're okay with staying inside and doing it.

However, besides the great sex, he pisses me off and I'm bound to leave him if he continues to be stubborn about our issues. But some of the things that are holding me back are cause yeah I love him and I know hes a great guy but why isnt he a great guy to me?! and our sex. Whenever I'm mad at him, I still go to bed fantasizing us having sex, its like therapy. Sometimes I want to stop cause Im mad at him but Ive realized it just feels too good so if I do leave him, Ill still be fantasizing having sex with him. One of the things that makes me want to stay for sex is cause I don't have sex just with anyone. I only do it if he's been my long-term bf. But I am in love with my bf right now and that love transpires through sex you know and Im just afraid I'm not gonna have that feeling anymore. I don't love easily. This was like a smack in the face.

With my ex, ughhhh lord we would have sex but it was easy to get turned off, nothing passionate and just so not sexual and affectionate cause I really didn't LOVE him, he was just my bf that I liked and spending time with. So it takes a really strong love for me to enjoy my sex and right now I have it and can't imagine anything better than with him.

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Based on 22 votes (7 yes)
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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    8 years ago

    I'm no help here so I'll just leave you with a relevant song in case you're one of the people like me who can find comfort in relatable songs

    http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=26uNj5VsFL4

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    • TrustMeImLying
      8 years ago

      *listens, likes, secretly steals it and runs away*

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  • sillygirl77
    8 years ago

    urgh I meant to vote not normal (I voted normal). I'm sorry, but sex is NOT the only reason you should stay with someone. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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    • [email protected]
      8 years ago

      this is normal

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Idk it just feels good to connect with someone so passionately like that, Ive never had it and its hard to let go. I don't want to get more lose with the way I handle my sex life because I know Ill feel like shit, thats not who I am. I just have a feeling I won't be having sex for the next 7 yrs.

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        I don't want to be mean, but it sounds like you're impossible to please.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Lol how ? Cause I won't just have sex with anybody cause I'm not easy ? Please elaborate.

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          • [Old Memory]
            8 years ago

            Why even entertain the idea of "leaving him" ? Especially when you say you love him.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              Because of the issues we have. These issues haven't gotten better and I'm getting tired of no compromises and a lack of understanding. Then I think of our sex and it reminds me how much I love him for all the good things. It's like 50/50, I'm torn.

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  • welchmk
    8 years ago

    Sex is only sex and if you are mixing up that sex is love you are so mistaken....you can have a relationship prior to having sex then having sex will be even more amazing. Unfortunately, you are having amazing sex and mixing that up with love!!!You actually can make sex amazing by being in love!

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    its way normal. Sex is a very powerful force. It drives our species, and almost every animal on the planet. Your needs and wants are taking a back seat to sex drive. Enjoy it while it lasts, the comedown is a bitch.

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  • [email protected]
    8 years ago

    I would love to join you. how would you like two dicks at once?

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    great sex is a good thing and a real joy but the relationship has to work for it to be worth it . I would advise you to communicate and try to resolve the issues and determine if you are both truly happy and want to stay together aside from the sex . If the answer is no then .. simply move forward in a mature manner and start having great sex with the new boyfriend .

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  • abigdick
    8 years ago

    There are a lot of guys who would give you all the cock you want and need. Sex is only a part of a relationship.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Lol nope not for me. I'm not easy like that where any sex is good. There has to be passion and love...sorry I'm old school.

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      • abigdick
        8 years ago

        Good for you. Enjoy life!

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    • [email protected]
      8 years ago

      I would love to join in.

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  • NathanScott
    8 years ago

    From experience great sex is not enough reason to stay.I was in the same situation as you a while back with this girl.Great sex but couldn't go a week without drama. Called it quits.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    Great sex can definitely help keep people together, and it can be so addictive too. But that in itself is not enough.

    Sounds like there's love there but you've both got issues to sort out with each other. That's what you've got to work on. If that doesn't get resolved then you'll probably split some day.

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