Is it normal to not know how to feel about this?

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So just a few days ago my brother tried to kill himself and of course I cried but I just don't know how to feel about this situation like I'm happy that he's alive but sad that he tried to die and like I'm kinda mad at him for not trying to stay. And sometimes I feel like he has been planning it because a few days before hand he gave me his shirt with was weird. I'm just lost right now and I'm the only person in my direct family that knows about this other then my parents.

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  • TheOishome
    5 years ago

    Suicide is crippling to a family your emotions after that are perfectly normal and I'm so sorry he almost took his life. Take this as a sign you've got to be there for him no matter what you're so lucky he didn't die make sure he knows how loved he is goodluck I really hope he recovers

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  • Whatintarnation
    5 years ago

    Seems like a normal range of emotions to me. Hope he gets the help he needs and gets better.

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    • sillygirl77
      5 years ago

      Ditto. OP, I hope he feels better soon as well as you.

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  • Lestat565
    5 years ago

    It’s common for suicide victims to give gifts to loved ones before doing it. How can you not feel both sad and happy, Sad because you care and happy cause he’s still alive. It’s natural to feel anger too but understand that he needs help. I hope that you and him and your family can get that help

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    Have you told him you're sad he tried to kill himself but really glad he didn't succeed? Your anger is normal, but it wouldn't be helpful to him if you express it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Sorry to hear your brother tried to take his own life, but glad to hear he's still with us. Speaking as a person who has felt suicidal, and made attempts I think you should tell him how much you love him, and how glad you are that he's alive. Whatever you do don't get mad at him.

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  • raisinbran
    5 years ago

    How did he try to kill himself? It wasn't bad enough that he ended up in the hospital since only you and your parents know (cry for attention maybe?). Sorry that it happened but fill us in on details.

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