Is it normal to not know each other but still love each other?

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I feel like my bf and I don't really know each other that well. We have been dating for almost 2 years. We kind of have the same personalities and get along here and there, but sometimes when we start arguing, we realize its mostly cause we misunderstood each other. I dont know if hes being sarcastic or hes serious but he tells me that I "scare him" like a "psycho" you know like one of those crazy bitches and Im just like dude...I dont know if you're joking or you're serious. At the end of the day, he has the wrong perception of me. But then its possible for me too, to not exactly know him. When I confront him about things Im not happy about, he comes off as shock like he wasn't aware he was doing something wrong or however I describe him he says its not true and I dont know him. So its weird its like we don't know each other that well I guess but its almost like we still like each other. Is this bad or good? Is it normal?

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Based on 11 votes (5 yes)
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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    If you don't now him by now, you will never ever ever ever know him.

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  • TheHighFlyer
    8 years ago

    This is normal. Women often overanalyze or read their own meaning in to what men say and do leading to misunderstandings. Not all women do it, and there are some men that do it to, but in my experience women do it a lot more.

    Just look at this site, there are lots of posts about "my boyfriend said or did this, what does it mean?", and not nearly as many of those from guys.

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    • LittleGirlCallouslySodomized
      8 years ago

      What women really want on this site are mainly two things. #1 Someone to talk to eg an emotional rag. #2 Reassurance.

      The "guys" that do it aren't Men and most likely a (fill in the blank x-sexual). There is no Man that behaves in a way in which you would describe as a "guy" on this site. With that in mind, thank you for calling them "guys" however I think you may be more correct calling them an "it"

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      • TheHighFlyer
        8 years ago

        I wasn't really talking about guys and girls on this site I was talking about guys and girls in general. I was thrm in general. I was just using some of the posts here postee by females as an example of what I was talking about.

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    I don't understand how you could not know someone afger two years :/

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    • LittleGirlCallouslySodomized
      8 years ago

      Know: to have sexual intercourse with.

      With Skype and Collage these days people can be "boyfriend/girlfriend" and never been in each others presence.

      In College they learn about sex and Skype they get to see each other. My, have things changed since you and I were their age.

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      • charli.m
        8 years ago

        No one uses that definition, fuckstick.

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        • LittleGirlCallouslySodomized
          8 years ago

          I love you too, sweetheart.

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          • Charli.m's_Messy_Period
            8 years ago

            Awwww.

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          • Charli.m's_Messy_Period
            8 years ago

            Awwww. How inspiring.

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    • TheDentist
      8 years ago

      *after

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      • Tbrand
        8 years ago

        *cunt.

        You act all self-righteous about how you've made the English language your bitch and yet, you make mistakes like:

        "Ask for for dental intercourse?"

        If you're going to be an obnoxious waste of oxygen, at least be consistent.

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  • TheDentist
    8 years ago

    If you don't know him, how is it possible to love him?

    I honestly don't understand this whole "love" thing.

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    • thegуpѕуѕailor
      8 years ago

      Love is when my fat ugly wife fucks me in my asshole with her big veiny black cock while i post comments on IIN

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    • thegypsysailor
      8 years ago

      That's apparent as hell.

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