Is it normal to not jump at the first guy to fancy you and make a move?

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okay so i've never had a proper boyfriend...i'm 20 ( a girl)
i've never had the confidence to 'go get' myself one and no one's ever seemed interested in me....well asked me out anyway. Which i think in a way has added to my problem.
Now there's this guy, i know he fancies me, we've even kissed when we were drunk. But something's stopping me moving forward with it.
I don't really fancy him, he's nothing like the guys i fancy so it seems like it would be a lie. But then i think this may be my only shot!
i don't think i'm ugly, just average.

he's a nice guy, some times i feel i'm just not letting myself look at him that way...

what's wrong with me. Why is this so hard for me? Is it normal? i guess i'm asking....

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  • TheConsciousElectron
    13 years ago

    If you don't like a guy don't feel bad. Same age and I've never had a boyfriend. Whenever a guy is interested my friends always try to convince me to go for it. But why should I if I don't like the guy?

    When you like someone, you know.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You're 20...not even classified as an adult yet. Give it time...you're smart not to go after this guy if he's not your type. It would end horribly.

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  • IXMugenXI
    13 years ago

    your 20 .. lol, give it some time! you got all the time ahead of you for other things don't dwell over men, men are always going to chase women, so wait, sounds to mee lik he isnt your type, well if that's the case don;t force yourslef.

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  • Elegy
    13 years ago

    Please do what your heart wants.Never pay attention at stereotypes

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  • eleventwelve
    13 years ago

    i'm in basically the same situation. i think we're probably better off not just going for any nice guy who's interested. That would probably end badly, since it's kind of a lie to begin with... either one or both people involved would be hurt in the end. This is just what my musings have led me to...

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  • Midnightshadow54
    13 years ago

    I'm not nearly your age, but everyone in my grade will date anything that wants them. This one guy took a fancy to me but I didn't give a damn. I didn't have the slightest interest in him, and he definitely isn't what I'd go for. So don't do something silly because you never had a boyfriend. I say if you really don't LIKE like him, then you shouldn't do anything irrational if it's not in your best interest.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I like you. you like me? =)

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