Is it normal to not have sex at all (due to lack of appeal and legal limits)?

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I haven't had sex in years, nor do i desire to. I see the act of intercourse as somewhat repulsive, but i am still human, and once in a while i wish i could make love to someone, but i don't. the reason for this is i am 21, and i am only sexually attracted to girls age 13-16 (or so it seems). I do not act on this because i know that it is against the law, and i know some are less mature than others so socially and mentally i could never hold a relationship with most of them. I can't help being attracted to them, admiring a hot girl in the grocery store or elsewhere as any normal guy would do, except i admire girls who are a little younger than the legal minimum. I don't plan on acting on these feelings with younger girls, I don't plan on making any moves or anything on girls, as i know it's just a bad situation. I do suppose if a girl were to come up to me at a concert or something and start talking to me that might be slightly different, but i just don't plan an having sex in general, it doesn't appeal to me, i've had sex before, it's not that great, and i haven't found anyone legal that i'm attracted to. so I guess the only thing that could work for me is a non-sexual 'dating' relationship with an underage girl. but i just don't, for the most part, have any interest in the dating game or having a relationship with anybody. heartbreak is a horrid thing. so i guess i should ask, is it normal to not have sex at all because it doesn't interest me and i'm just not attracted to anyone my age?

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Based on 40 votes (21 yes)
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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    Okay... mr Peter File... cousin of Johnny File..

    I somewhat understand where you come from. Not the underage thing - that's just creepy and unnecessarily gross.

    I've last had sex years and years ago. It also repulses me. The desire is just not there for me to wanna be with anyone in that way.

    I don't think that it's weird or uncommon. You're just transitioning into a new era of your life. It's a subconscious yearning for something more. You don't wanna waste your time or somebody else's time with silly little courtship rituals if they're not the right person for you. That's all it is. And it's quite respectable, Peter.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Man its fucking pedo-bear week on here isn't it.

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  • TheChakraMantra
    9 years ago

    Well, I don't share your interest, but I do understand that you can't help who you're attracted to. We certainly don't choose who we like, else I'd choose to stop being in love with my ex. So I won't harp on you over that, since everyone else in the comments can't seem to calm themselves down about it for a second anyway.

    But considering that you're not attracted to people your own age (or even older) it's not surprising that you've lost most of your sex drive, since the ones you are attracted to are off limits. Then again, depending on where you live, you could always try going for a 16 y/o, since that is the age of consent in many states, in North America that is. Hell, most 16 y/o girls go gaga 'n shit over older guys, for whatever reason. But aside from that, there's not much you can do to help your situation but to just keep putting yourself out there and look for someone legal that peeks your interest. You could even look into ageplay, if you like that sort of thing. Lots of people do, from what I've heard.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Yes, don't ever act on your urges.
    *lights a torch & grabs pitchfork*

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  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    Do you perhaps have feelings of inadequacy? Is your penis small? Did your mommy beat you on the head? You are sick and need urgent help. If you cannot find help, take a nice sharp razor and cut your testicles off, this should stop your feelings you have toward young girls!

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    • TheChakraMantra
      9 years ago

      Buddy, you're in no place to tell him he's a sicko, seeing as how I keep finding you sexually harassing women in a bunch of these posts. You give off the vibe of a sexual predator too

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      • sexysonofsam
        9 years ago

        Thank you for the positive feedback i do appreciate it! No I am not a sexual predator, I am a sexual deviant, there is a distinct difference...

        I do not sexually harass anybody, there are a lot of people on this site who are just looking for trouble.

        I do hope and trust that your day will be an excellent one from here on in?

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