Is it normal to not have any any mercy or remorse for people because of this?

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Okay so i know that this has probably been said a thousand times already but i just need to vent so just bear with me "please"!
Okay but when i was a kid i saw my parents having sex i was in there room in fact and of coarse AWAKE,and i was in their bed too.but anyway i was in there bed and they started to have sex in front of me,granted they did not know i was awake but still i was in their bed for christ's sake i mean c'mon!But anyway back too the story,so i was in their bed while they were having sex and what do u know i fall off there moderately high bed,because of all the bouncing;).soooo i fall off and hit my head on a "metal" handle on the way down now while i was on the ground i heard them talking......about me.....because i fell off their bed and and hit my head on a handle of one of their drawers,but anyway they were talking and I thought they were going to come to my rescue but they didn't and just said he's fine and started to have sex again.and you no maybe they didn't know that i hit my head but they could of at least checked on me,but i was there on the ground waiting for them to come get me but never did and when i heard that they just kept on having sex i (don't laugh)started to cry,and didn't want to get up because i was to scared that i would get in trouble so i just stayed down and eventually cried myself too sleep and woke up in the morning.
But after that day when that happened i was a changed person even if i did not know it at the time it changed me mixed with all the other things that happened in my life into the person i am today.
and if your still reading this thanks for listening! :)
P.S. If your wondering it was a silent cry. ;)

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

They at Least should have waited until you were no longer in the bed to have sex. That was weird. They could've gone into the kitchen and had sex while making coffee or food. The power of sex overcame the need to check on their own child! But, if they didn't care about how inappropriate it is to have sex while your child is in the bed with you, it kind of makes sense that they didn't care to check on you. Well, your mother cared because, she asked about your WELLBEING but, your father wanted sex, and shooed away any possible injuries that you could've sustained.

I'm not saying that I support holding grudges because, I don't. Since you seem to find the injury more traumatising than the sex, I don't get why you would hold something against both of your parents. Why don't you hold your grudges solely against your father?

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  9 years ago
  
  i hold grudges on both of them because my mother could have at least stopped to check if i was okay or not i hate them both with a passion.and i didn't really find any of those things traumatizing,more like when they didn't care about me enough to stop having sex and check to see if i was okay or not.but i also love to hold grudges because it gives me a sense of justification when i do something bad to the person i have a grudge with.
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NeuroNeptunian

9 years ago

While I can totally agree that your parents are fucking weird as hell, I don't agree that this experience is a good excuse for being a dick but it's whatever.

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  9 years ago
  
  whatev's then :|
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green_boogers

9 years ago

Your writing style is hilarious. Are you ten years old?

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  9 years ago
  
  thank u very much,and i'm not 10 i'm 11 and almost 12.
  jk ;D
  
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regisphilbin

9 years ago

I agree that your parents should have checked on you and it was wrong for them not to.

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  9 years ago
  
  i also agree. :)
  
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Soul_less_matter

9 years ago

If the people who were made to care for you don't then it is fine to feel that way

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  9 years ago
  
  thx 4 understanding!
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Dazed_dreamer

9 years ago

When people say dont laugh believe me we laugh..
Ha! My parents would never do it if I was there, plus id be inbetween them both.
Didnt you have your own bed?
I think you may have hit your head so bad that your remembering the story differently each time haha

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  yeah i had my own bed but i was scared to sleep alone,so yeah.
  Now that i think about it i was such a wimp back then. lol :)
  
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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

Two loving people making love fucked up your whole life? Now if they'd been fighting and hurting each other, maybe, but a loving couple; not likely.
I think you need to look a bit deeper into your motivations and stop blaming your parents.

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  9 years ago
  
  that's not why man,it's because they did not come to pick me up from the floor or even check on me,i mean because i fell off their bed and am not making any sound or moving,even though it was just because i was to scared to move or make sound they could of at least checked on their 6 year old child who just fell off your bed and is (as i said before) not moving or making any sound.What a pair of loving parents huh they couldn't take like a couple of seconds out of their "love making" session to just at least see if i was alright!
  P.S. Sorry for that really wasn't trying to take my anger out on u but just couldn't help it,because your comment just angered me to a point i haven't been at in long time even though u probably didn't know:)
  
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    9 years ago
    
    Do you think it possible they weren't even aware you'd fallen off the bed? They were obviously otherwise engaged, and as you said, they thought you were asleep. Why would they think it odd you were quiet?
    I don't care if you get angry; that is your right, just as it is mine to wonder why this incident is responsible for all that's wrong with your life. It seems to me you've blown it all out of proportion, if your memories are even accurate. Childhood memories are notoriously inaccurate.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      i remember it very well,and i know they were aware because because they stopped and i heard them start talking about,how i fell and they just said "He's fine" and kept on doing it and i know they did not look at me on the ground because i was looking up at their bed.and wouldn't u think it was a little odd that a six year old child who fell off a reasonably high bed and not making any sound or any sound of movement,i mean come on who in there right mind would risk their child's safety for sex,they didn't know but i hit my head on the way down what if i was knocked out and bleeding out or something.and im not blowing it out of proportion because that's exactly what happened,and i never said this was the only thing that's responsible for everything wrong in my life i said this mixed with all the other things made me who i am today.
      
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      - thegypsysailor
        
        9 years ago
        
        I'm sorry your life is so screwed up, but your story seems more like a child's dream than something you actually went through.
        Until you stop blaming your parents, your life probably won't improve, so you can go on as you have been for how many years, or you can move on and get something going for yourself.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        thanks,and sorry for getting into a comment fight with you.I didn't mean to come off as so mean.
        sorry :)
        
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