Is it normal to not have a personality?

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I noticed how I don’t really have a personality that’s unique to me. I usually have a personality that fits my ideal. For example I adapt my traits to my friends, I talk like them and find the same hobbies they do just do be like them.

Than after some time I change. I noticed how I changed from being someone to being someone entirely different.

I don’t have multiple personality disorder and I’m sure of it, I never feel anxious or depressed. My personalities always change they don’t remain the same, my voice changes along with it this is why it’s difficult to find myself. I have trouble telling people who exactly I am, I wish I could just be one stable person.

I really need help with this. How do I find myself and what’s wrong with me?

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  • e51pegasi
    5 years ago

    Try searching for 'mirroring' & 'social chameleon'.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Probably some kind of personality disorder. Not sure what to call it though or if there even is a word for this.

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  • EyelessKid
    5 years ago

    Yeah. Same here. My personality is always changing. One day, I'm like my weird friend, the next day I'm like a celebrity. I'm still figuring out who I am.

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  • BrokenDisc
    5 years ago

    I used to be in your position. The first step is a change in mentality. Consciously reject the need to mimic other people's personalities. Next is the follow-through. Stop the mimicking. You won't know who you are until you give yourself a chance to learn. If you'd like to talk feel free to message me. 😊

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  • SweetTouch
    5 years ago

    Just be yourself man. Try finding a hobby or something that you like. Try to be socialise with other people. You can do it, man! I supported you!

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  • Nani9796
    5 years ago

    Get a hobby and don't be scared of show yourself as your are

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I think what you should do is to stick with something you'd really like to do and to try to adopt what successful people do in that specific direction

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  • ARandomRaccoon
    5 years ago

    Sadly, it's rather impossible to have a unique personality. No matter how much we may feel at times as if we are completely different than those around us or that others can't understand what we're feeling/thinking, we're all fundamentally the same. Psychologically, we all fit into specific categories with slight variations.

    As for you yourself, your personality will change throughout your life, influenced by the people around you and the events you are involved in. Those that worry about finding themselves rarely do. Just relax, be yourself, and don't overthink it.

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  • itachi_uchiha
    5 years ago

    Same here... But again with few alternations

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  • ThatsHowItIsOnThisBitchOfAnEarth
    5 years ago

    Same, but without the "friends".

    I think a lot of people go through a stage like this especially when young. You just have to make a conscious effort to ask yourself if what you're about to do is something you actually enjoy, and if it's not, break the habit of people pleasing. Slowly you will find what you really like to do and become more confident in it.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    You are talking identity not personality. Interests remain flexible thru early adulthood. It's a good feeling when you finally find your place in the world.

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