Is it normal to not get over your ex?

She broke up with me four years ago. I haven't been able to get over her. We dated for about a year. She was my first and only girl friend. We are still friends but it pains me to see that she has moved on so easily. I think about her almost every day. Is it love? Or obsession?

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  • ilovetoiletrolls

    Lol my ex tried to get back to me after 9 years of not being with him. He was the one who broke it off with me and I found it hilarious how he's that desperate he's trying to get with an ex.

    An ex is an ex for a reason, leave it be in your mind. Put it out. Write his/her name on a piece of paper and burn it. This is your life, don't let someone who doesn't deserve you rule it.

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  • Johnnytherat

    Tonight we'll sail to the edge of the world!
    And watch the staaarrrrsss faaaall dooooowwwnnn!
    You'll put your head in my arms as we wonder!
    Is there anything we could have done!?

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  • thegypsysailor

    It certainly isn't love. You think you are punishing her by being miserable, but believe me, you are not.
    That you even still talk to her is so wrong on so many levels, I just don't know how to impress it upon you.
    You can torture yourself for fucking ever, or you can GROW A PAIR. Get out there and get laid; you don't have to be all serious about finding a new steady girl. Just get back into the dating game and STOP seeing, talking to or communicating with your ex. She is your ex; you will never get to fuck her again, period.

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  • FuzzaMuzza7

    You should talk to her about it, she'll help you move on

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  • mountain-man82

    Im not over my ex yet, but its only been about 7 months. Four years is a really long time not to be over someone though.

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  • gummy_jr

    Burn their pictures

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  • You should have move on. Four years is kind of a long time to dwell on someone. It is also weird that you are friends with her. That must be torture considering how you feel.

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    • Neuria

      I still hope we have a chance at reconnecting.

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