Is it normal to not find your boyfriend attractive?

He had a crush on me from the start. i turned him down at first. But honestly i hadn't had a boyfriend all throughout high school and i was entering my 3rd year of college with no boyfriend either. i was lonely. So i thought what the hell? We are friends. We get along. We have a lot of the same interests. And i like him well enough so why not get past this really shallow reason to not date him such as attractiveness. Well we've been going strong for a couple months now and i was just curious if i am normal or not for not finding my bf attractive.

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Based on 40 votes (20 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • billygoatsgruf

    Yes, it's very common for lonely people like yourself to settle for what they can manage to get when they can't do any better.

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    • IMissMary

      Could not have said it better

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  • sugartits

    kill him for the insurance money

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    • papasito

      Fucking W

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  • Thedollcollector8==D

    So you are only with this guy because you could not find anyone else? Hopefully you do not break his heart as soon as you find a more attractive man. That would be fucked up and you would come across as a desperate shallow little whore. I hope your relationship works out.

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  • Short4Words

    That wasn't fair for him. You should've been more sure.

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  • IMissMary

    Wonder how he feels about you.... Wonder if he can see through you.

    Why not be a real woman and tell him how you feel?

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  • bigol'dick

    It just means you're less shallow than many people. It's a good thing.

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  • Darktown_vs_Blackville

    You have a responsibility to tell this guy IMMEDIATELY how you feel about this issue.

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    • Thedollcollector8==D

      She won't.

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      • Darktown_vs_Blackville

        Yeah, i know

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