Is it normal to not feel horny for more than 3 years?

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I'm a 21 year old female who hasn't felt horny for more than 3 years now.
I know the cause had to do with my depression, anxiety and weight gain. I already take medication for my depression and started to exersise to try and improve my libido, but it's not very effective.
But is there anything else I can do to increase my sex drive, to get that random horny feeling back again? Since masturbating help me releave stress.

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Based on 27 votes (10 yes)

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Handyman

7 years ago

I wish you luck, any many good times!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thank you. :)
  Wish the same and more for you too.
  
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Handyman

7 years ago

Depression could be the cause, but you at least masturbates. That would keep you going.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  No I don't masturbate that much. And when I do, I have to force my self to.
  I meant that I would like to masturbate but I never feel like it. :/
  
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  - Handyman
    
    7 years ago
    
    It could be the medication, some do strange things. But I hope you do find the reason, any sex is to good to miss.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      I've gone off the medication now and I am trying online therepy (because I can not afford it in person).
      Hopefully I start to feel like my old self soon.
      And thank you.
      
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felixy

7 years ago

If you're on any antidepressants, then that could be your problem. You should get some bloodwork done and check out your testosterone levels—if they're especially low, even for a woman, that'll kill your drive.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Okay I'll do that. Thanks.
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

I'm on there, i got you and have messaged back

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Carlton03

7 years ago

Cool, I'll check it out when I can

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Carlton03

7 years ago

Open the app, then click the magnifying glass icon on the bottom, it brings up a search bar at the top, then go to people and type in
Persons name, that is my best guess, my instagram is "isitnormalguy"

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Cool I added you and sent a message.
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

Haha nice, amm I'm actually not too sure, I'll take a look and get back to you

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Carlton03

7 years ago

Would you consider getting instagram? I didn't know either, I got it like mid last year and then I discovered that, I f not it's cool I will research some others for us :-)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Okay I downloaded Instagram, I'll give it a shot.
  How do I add you?
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

No worries, I think I would like to talk to you too :-) I have an instagram, you have that? If not maybe consider downloading it? Or we can think of another app, they are practically all free.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I don't have instagram, and I didn't know you could chat with it. That's pretty cool.
  But maybe another app, I want to see how many options we have.
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

If you ever need to chat I'm
Here

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thanks you, I really appreciate your help.
  
  I don't have IIN Gold. But I would like to chat more. Do you have Kik or any other sort of chat app?
  If you don't want to connect through those apps I understand.
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

No worries anonymous

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SameLovesDean

7 years ago

Asexuall

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I thought asexuals don't have any attraction for any person.
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

Good luck with everything

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thank you. :)
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

The medication could be an factor, please look up the side effects etc, other than that is it that bad? It's just horny feelings that only make us want sex really? Unless someone is in a serious relationship or marriage I don't rate sex as anything necesary or important and you did say you take matters into your own hands so i guess that's like somewhat of a substitute, priority should be for you to focus on managing your mental health condition in my opinion, I also have a fairly low libido, I'm a 27 year old male

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I starting to think its my depression that's causing it. Went off the medication for a bit and nothing improved.
  
  Only masturbation now gets me through hard times and is a good stress releaver. Since I've lost intreset in my hobbies due to my depression.
  I know its not really important in general to a lot of people but it keeps me going for now.
  
  I'm trying to manage my mental health. Along with working and studying and looking after my younger sister.
  
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Handyman

7 years ago

Not much, but the rest is very good! Thanks :)

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