Is it normal to not comprehend why pple don't like me?

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Yeah I have a history of people just not liking me. I don't know why especially recently. I've never done anytime to anyone so I'm guessing its just my personality is unlikable. I do have a little bit of social anxiety so I'm not sure if the awkwardness comes out (I think it does) but I've also heard that I'm just some kind of b*tch or stuck up. i have no idea where that comes from as I really friendly prob too friendly when we meet. I do have friends who know this of me therefore they like me. But the majority don't see it and instead see this opposite side of me. The thing is if someone tends to treat me a certain way when I never gave them a reason to then that's when I start getting frustrated n prob come off as bitchy. But its more like they asked for it. Sometimes I feel like I come off as too aggressive but that's normally when I drink which I've worked on. Also, I am attractive therefore I attract a lot of people yet they think I'm this confident girl when really, I struggle w a lot inside. And I think the confidence they have in me when they start talking to me puts a lot of pressure on me to act a certain way and that's how I start getting social anxiety.

On the bright side, luckily this didn't stop my bf from being w me. I used to sweat and still do actually around him. He would straight up ask why I'm red or sweating and yes its cause I was nervous since I liked him so much but also cause I have social anxiety.

What can I do about this? Besides people, I like myself I make myself laugh so o just assume others will like me too.

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    I can relate to this. People come and people go. The ones who stay are worth it and most of the ones who don't are probably a dodged bullet anyway.

    "What people think of me is none of my business"

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  • victorygin
    8 years ago

    Sometimes if you're nervous or shy, it definitely comes off as stuck up or stand-offish...which is a bit unfair, really. A lot of people just won't make the effort to get to know you and will act on their first assumptions of what you're like.

    I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Enjoy the friends you have. Try and get to know people, be interested in them - people love to talk about themselves.

    But don't give it a second thought if you think someone doesn't like you - because worrying about it might be making it worse.

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  • tightlittleboysasshole
    8 years ago

    If you want to feel true love and acceptance you should fuck a young cute sweet little boy.

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