Is it normal to never wanna see ur mom again?

My mom is one annoying, selfcentered bitch. She thinks she is always the victim and never ever appologise when she is wrong. Somehow she will find a way to make everything my fault. She always tells me how big of an embarresment I am for her and that I always do her wrong. I am an actuarial student and I know I'm not a dissapointment. She pretends in front of her friends and tell them I'm so great but in the meanwhile she bitches the whole fucking time.I tried so hard just to have a relationship with her.. Don't know what to do anymore..is it normal to never wanna see her again?

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Based on 53 votes (40 yes)
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  • joybird

    I'm the same but really it's dead easy!

    Sit in with your mom and her friends and when she boasts about you, bring it out into the open and say, "That's not what you said earlier. You said I was an embarassment to you!" Her cronies will all be shocked and she will be furious. Anyway, bullies always want you to stay silent and that allows them to continue.

    OR, you could record her to play to her friends or put her on youtube. That would teach her a lesson.

    Go out with a bang!

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  • araii

    sounds kind of like my mom just get out of her house, then try to build a relationship with her, if she cant change her ways dont let her negativeness down, kick her out of your life :)

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  • moomus

    She sounds just like my mum!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    If you don't ever want to see her again I recommend getting a job to pay for your own education and housing. that way you won't ever had to depend on her for anything

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  • lbntuk

    YOU'RE SICK!

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  • flightlesskiwi

    your mother sounds just like my mother, and often talking doesn't help with these kinds of people who always see themselves as the victim. Eventually I may decide not to see my mother again either. I'll give her a last chance to change before though.

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  • Honestly have you tried talking to her. Because I'm not going to lie, you sound a lot like your mom. Break the cycle and communicate with her one last time. It's easy to blame other people, not that you did anything wrong.

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