Is it normal to never open up about being gay?

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I have this friend who right away I thought was gay. If you met him, you would think so too. We kept hanging out cause we got along but he just started flirting with me very aggressively. I was confused. Sometimes gay guys flirt with their gfs and its "okay." So thats what I thought was happening but he just became flirtier and touchier and creepier. My first thought is hes just trying too hard to hide the fact that he's gay. Hes in his mid 30's, single, just living life. So another sign hes probably gay because he hasn't settled down with anyone and doesn't look like he wants to any time soon. I remember getting a little buzzed and I him to the corner telling him he can tell me anything and he looked down and just said okay. I think I did kinda mention about him being gay but yeah he was just like "okay." So we have been hanging out a few times since then and hes been a little less touchy and more respectful. I just wonder is he ever going to open up? I just want him to know he can trust me. Plus, I won't feel too violated anymore.

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  • HiAGAIN10
    7 years ago

    maybe you give him vibes that youre open to experiment.

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  • Whatintarnation
    7 years ago

    Maybe he's just feminine. I knew a guy in high school that I would of sworn was gay. He's married with kids now. Sure, it could be a clever cover but you never know. If he's getting to touchy feely, maybe he's just a perv.

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