Is it normal to never have been with any of the girls i had the strongest feel

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Looking back on my life (I'm 50 now)...I never dated or had any relationship with the girls or women I had the strongest feelings for...in fact I never dated someone I had real strong feelings for...is this normal? I can remember about 5-7 girls that my feelings were so strong I got literally sick but they never knew it...is this normal?

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Based on 21 votes (10 yes)
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  • bigboigroove
    7 years ago

    i also said yes but i don't really know if its normal..I do know that i can relate. I'm in my 40s and i've never dated any girl/woman that i really liked and/or was attracted to.. they've all just wanted my friendship. Some absolutely loved me and still do..but never wanted me.
    And as a result i crave that "want" more than anything else... got a box full of loves in my closet that I've collected throughout the years, collecting dust with no clue what to do with it. lol

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  • lemon
    7 years ago

    Yes, it's definitely normal for me. I think it's just maybe that you're so self-conscious around people you really like so you're not yourself around them.

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  • Spyrothelion
    7 years ago

    I said yes but I dont actually know maybe your more in love w the person now you jusr dont realise it because your comftorble and you get curious. I remember being obsessed w some girls when I was younger but I love my girl more than them now.maybe its just because you could never actually get them and so it plays on your mind. My girls a godess on so many levels. I guess its all personal though I imagine people feel similarly at some point or another but Im very lucky man. Get high get wanderin eye forget Ive never ever had it so sweet your my girl in the golden crown and a dont wanna let you down. Peace.

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