Is it normal to never complain to your partner ?

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Its weird how my bf never complains to me like about how I am, what I'm doing wrong, etc. And I know I'm not perfect and I know I'm not like the perfect girl for him. So it concerns me how he never bothers to state his opinion on something about me. Does he not care? Or he just has this amazing willingness to accept all my flaws? I remember he once said hell let me know for sure when there's something wrong other than that, I shouldn't have to worry. I can literally cuss him out, mess with him, be rude to him, and he wnt say anything but his facial expression will. The ultimate expression to say he's turned off by me is calling it off and he hasn't done that. Like I said, I can be a turn off to him but he doesn't like break it off. He's not a pushover either like he just doesn't rake sh*t. So what's his deal? I want him to communicate w me when he's not happy with me but instead, he keeps it to hear myself. I told him before that its okay to tell me he went hurt my feelings and he said ok but he has yet to confront me. It makes me feel like he doesn't care about me enough to confront me or is he so happy with me he doesn't find my flaws making a big impact? He's so complicated.

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    I'll complain to you. You write like a valley girl.

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    So...you're being a bitch just to get a reaction?

    That sounds like a healthy relationship. ...

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    I hate posts that are as long as a book.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      It aint that long

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      • dytrog
        8 years ago

        OK I read it. It wasn't near as long as I've seen before. I've been married 43 years. When my wife gets mad and starts yelling at me I just sit and listen until she gets tired and quits. If she comes back and starts again I sometimes get mad and yell at her 'Shut the fuck up I heard you the first time'
        I hate getting mad it makes me almost ill or at least nervous and shaky.

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        • bu773rcup
          8 years ago

          god I feel so bad for your wife, I can't tell if you're joking or not. I thought inconsiderate assholes like you were only on TV

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          • dytrog
            8 years ago

            I never walk in and start yelling at her.
            I let her yell at me without getting mad. I listen until she is finished. After listening to 5 min. of screaming I am in no mood to listen to another 5. So if she comes back and starts again I tell her I've heard it so shut up and go back to the loving room. I watch tv in the family room my wife and her sister in the living room.
            So what am I doing wrong?

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    Maybe he doesn't care about ur flaws cuz he loves u ever that about that?

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  • JFreed
    8 years ago

    It's extremely unhealthy to not tell your partner what upsets you about them or anything else. If you want your relationship to last, tell him what pisses you off about him.
    And you write like a fucking valley girl

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