Is it normal to never be asked out?

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So, I have never been pursued by a male (or female). I have a boyfriend, but I was the one who initiated contact and did most of the courtship. Im not intimidating in any way. Im small and physically a noodle, and I also have a decent amount of friends without being too popular. Im not exactly pretty but Im definitely not ugly either. It sort of hurts my confidence a bit, especially since all of my friends have these crazy romance stories. Its not like I want to be at this point in my life. My boyfriend and I have been together for years now and plan on getting engaged soon but its just a bit strange.

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  • here2help
    7 years ago

    sound like your friends are talkin shit.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Bitches be triflin.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Yeah, chicks are annoying when they do that shit.

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  • lillygirl
    7 years ago

    I would gladly ask you to get out...

    No.. seriously I won't...

    You have your own good life and a boyfriend with a serious relationship.

    Don't worry.. you are doing good..

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  • surrey
    7 years ago

    Men these days are pretty timid. There are many reasons for this, including the fact that "unwanted sexual advances" can end a guy's career these days. Your physical appearance has nothing to do with it, I'm sure, as long as you are average looking or better. Maybe your personality is unpleasant, or you come across overly opinionated, inflexible or just generally bad to be around. I'm not at all accusing you of that. I am just speculating about possible reasons for your experiences.

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  • TheMightyOz
    7 years ago

    At least you get to have sex. I can't even get it up. I am just pathetic.

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