Is it normal to miss the cute little things my boyfriends used to do?

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We had a rough ride recently, & things are getting better. However, I really want my bf to do the cute little things he used to like the cute emails, or cute pictures. IDK, I know the reason why men (& women) stop doing these things is because they're bored or just comfortable in relationship but in my case I think all the fighting lately has been the reason. Everything is almost back to normal but just this bit is missing. What can I do to get those little things back?!? :(
I don't really want to talk about it to him, maybe idk maybe indirectly tell him? Or things I should do to get his attention back? IDK Please help.

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Ok why don't you just get into a comftorbal place like a romantic place and say out loud I wish are relationship could be what it used to be

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    Why don't you do some "cute" things for him? It might ignite the spark of romance in the man and he'll reciprocate with his old endearing ways :)

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  • Karateneko
    12 years ago

    My bf dumped me.. I really miss all the cute things he would do. His laugh, his gait... That little "meh" noise he would make when he was disapointed... oh it was all so cute.

    But life goes on, doesn't it?

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    "cute pictures" ???

    Oh boy...

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  • cathy22
    12 years ago

    of course you wouldn't want to ask him to do something, it wouldn't be the same., Maybe you could do little things and he'll pick up on it?

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    You stop makin him sammiches too so you can't complain really

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He doesn't feel the need to do it anymore. I wrote loving emails to my ex for the whole 2 years we were together. At some point I stopped because I was pretty much repeating myself but she told me that she missed when I'd do it so I kept doing it for her. I loved doing that for her though. Try telling him, maybe he will do those things again.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    To get this back you should introduce something exciting and new, maybe in public, that leads to the interest and excitement of something later! Be creative, blow his mind, but in little steps that keeps his attention and desires for more!

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Ahhh to get back the old spark

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