Is it normal to love someone with all your heart but hate them at the same time

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Ok, I used to have a bf who I loved more than ANYTHING in the world, but I always promised myself as soon as I thought I could handle it, to get out of that relationship, we are broke up now, but I was just curious, IIN???

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  • dogsdieinhotcars
    13 years ago

    Is it normal? is it normal? mmmmmm? WHO CARES !

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  • Brittanylovesu33
    13 years ago

    It's a cognitive dissonance. It sucks but it happens.

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  • Fezza
    13 years ago

    Going through it, living it now. It is awful. Why can't I walk away and shut that door for good. It makes me feel awful. He is the love of my life, yet I hate how he treats me.

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  • ryanthony
    13 years ago

    So many people I've known, my parents, my best friends - and even myself - after an intense romantic relationship and then after something traumatic coming between the two of you, it's so hard to balance that love/hate feeling. They induce such a drug-like charge in your brain that it's easy to switch your perception of this person quickly and without regard. You need to look at how you've been treated and balance that against just how much you love this person. I've seen so much unhappiness from this situation, please don't hurt yourself.

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  • Cosmicgiggle
    13 years ago

    A fine line between love and hate. Both are charged with passion

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